Inja yam iluma ukhuko lwayo, oonobangela kunye nendlela yokuyiphepha

inja ngaphakathi kwebhedi yakhe kwaye ineendlebe ezichazayo

Uyayibona inja yakho iluma umandlalo wayo? Rhoqo izinja zethu zihlala ziluma yonke into esemendweni wazo kwaye phakathi kwezo zinto zinokufumana ibhedi yazo.

Into esizibuza yona xa sibona inja yethu isenza lento kutheni isenzeka? Ukuba ufuna ukwazi Ungayisombulula njani le ngxaki yokuziphatha kwesilwanyana sakho, Kuya kufuneka ufunde inqaku elilandelayo, apho siza kukunceda uqonde ukuba kutheni isenza le nto kwaye iza kuyeka njani ukuyenza.

Ungasabela njani kule ndlela yokuziphatha kwenja?

inja etsala into yakhe yokudlala kwaye ngamehlo aqhekezayo

Ufika ekhaya emva komsebenzi wosuku kwaye ubona ezinye iziqwenga zebhedi yenja yakho okoko ungena emnyango. Ufika kwindawo apho anebhedi yakhe kwaye uluma indawo ebishiyeke ingekho. Into yokuqala ozibuza yona kule meko yile, kufuneka ndenze ntoni xa inja yam isenza oku?

Ukuphendula kwakho kule ndlela ingaqhelekanga yenja yakho kubalulekile. Ngokuqinisekileyo into yokuqala ethi qatha engqondweni kukumohlwaya okanye ukumthethisa, kodwa ayisiyiyo into eyenza umahluko kwinja yakho, ngubani ongayi kuqonda ukuba usabela njengesohlwayo.

Eyona nto inokwenzeka ukuba uyohlwaya inja yakho, yile impendulo ehluke ngokupheleleyo kule nto ubufuna ukuyiphumeza kwaye uyenze iphinde iphindaphindwe. Kungenxa yoko le nto eyona nto icetyiswayo, endaweni yokuphendula ngalo mzuzu isenzeka, kukuphonononga ukuba kutheni isilwanyana sakho sisabela ngale ndlela, ukusombulula ingxaki emazantsi.

Kutheni le nto inja yam iluma izinto?

Oku kuziphatha akuveli kwinja ubusuku bonke ngaphandle kwesizathu. Zininzi izizathu zokuba angayiqondi inyani yokuba akufuneki ehlafuna izinto ezithile, phakathi kwebhedi yakhe. Ke, Siza kukufundisa izizathu eziqhelekileyo ukuba isilwanyana sakho silume yonke into esendleleni yaso:

Awufundisanga

Inja ayizalwanga iyazi ukuba ingayenza kwaye ayinakwenza ntoni ekhayeni lakho kwaye sihlala simangaliswa zizimilo zolu hlobo, xa enyanisweni kuya kufuneka sizibuze ukuba ingaba sibanikile na imfundo eyimfuneko, ukuze bangazenzi ezi ntlobo zezenzo ezonakalisayo. Phakathi kwezinto ezinokubakho inokuba inja icinga ukuba lo ngumdlalo.

Veza ukukhathazeka kwakho

Ukuba nangaliphi na ixesha ukhe wamohlwaya ngenxa yenye into okanye waxelelwa rhabaxa ngokuziphatha gwenxa, inja yakho inokuyihambisa le mvakalelo yokudana Kule ndlela yokungaziphathi kakuhle uqala ukuluma phantsi komqamelo, iisofa, kunye nakwibhedi yakho. Kuyamangalisa ukuba le nto ayenzayo kwaye ikukhathaza kakhulu, iyamthomalalisa kolo luvo lokukhathazeka ebekade enalo.

Ukuqaqanjelwa ngamazinyo

Ukujolisa ngqo kwiinjana, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba bafumana izinto ezintsha mzuzu ngamnye kwaye indlela abaziphatha ngayo inokwahluka kwaye banokuziphatha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, Ukucinga ukuba yonke into ngumdlalo. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kanye njengoko kusenzeka kuthi singabantwana, amazinyo abo akhula kancinci kwaye oku kunokubangela iintlungu.

Ndikulindele ngolangazelelo

Inja yakho iyazi yonke into oyenzayo. Uqhele ukukubona ufika usiya, silinde ukuphathwa, ukuba sigcwalise ipleyiti yabo ngokutya okanye sidlale nabo. Umzuzu wokuya emsebenzini nokuba nenja yakho iyodwa iiyure ezimbalwa uyifaka kwimeko yokuphelelwa lithemba ngokungakuboni ngelo xesha, elinokuzisa ixhala kwaye lifune ukulikhupha ngale ndlela yokuziphatha kokuluma phantse yonke into.

Uyadika

Into enento yokwenza nenqaku langaphambili kukudikwa zizinja, into enokuthi ikhokelele kolu hlobo lwentlekele nakwezinye izinto ezimbi. Isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya sifuna ukukhuthazwa rhoqo ukuze ungaziva udikiwe ixesha elide. Ukuba akukho nto ikujikelezileyo ekukhuthazayo ngokwaneleyo, uya kuyifumana inkuthazo ekusebenziseni imihlathi namazinyo ukukrazula nayiphi na ibhedi okanye umqamelo okufuphi.

Awusebenzisi amandla aneleyo

Kukho iintlobo ezizolileyo ngokunxulumene nokuzilolonga, kodwa ezinye ezifuna ngokwenene ukukhulula onke amandla azo, maninzi. Kukho iintlobo zezinja ezimiselwe kwangaphambili ukuzingela, njenge IBorzoi, kwaye abanye abafuna ukubaleka nokubaleka ngaphandle kokuma ixesha elide, ukuba basebenzise amandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba bafike ekhaya bediniwe ngokwaneleyo ukuba baziphathe kakuhle ngaphakathi kwamakhaya abo.

Ndiyiphelisa njani inja yam ekuhlafunweni ebhedini yakho?

Sele sizijongisisile zonke izizathu zokuba kutheni inja yakho entle iba "irhamncwaUkuluma yonke into ngaphakathi kwekhaya lakho. Lixesha lokuba ukuqonde oku kwaye ucinge malunga nokuba isisombululo esibonisiweyo sinokuba yintoni ukuze ungaphinde uyenze. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo onokuthi uzame de ukuba inja yakho ingabonakalisi le ndlela yokuziphatha kwaye zezi zilandelayo:

Sebenzisa ibhedi kuphela xa ukho

Esinye sezona zisombululo zixhaphakileyo esinokuzifumana kule ngxaki kukuba, xa uphuma, ususa umandlalo osetyenziswa yinja yakho kwaye uthande ukuluma, ukuze uyisebenzise kuphela xa ulapho kwaye uphantsi kweliso lakho. Njengoko sikuxelele ngaphambili, ukumthethisa nje akuyi kuzisa ziphumo zilungileyo, ke xa umbona eluma umandlalo wakhe, kufuneka umyeke kwaye ngokukhawuleza umnike into anokuyiluma, njengenye yeithoyi zakhe.

Fumana teethers

inja emhlophe ecaleni kwebhola

Into oyifumanayo kuzo zonke iivenkile zezilwanyana ohamba kuzo rhoqo ziluma. Inja yakho ayisoze iyeke ukufuna ukuhlafuna izinto, ke kuya kufuneka ulume kuphela izinto ezifanelekileyo, ukuze ungazilumi izinto ezaphukileyo. Ezi teether zihlala zenziwe ngamalaphu anganyangekiyo kwaye ngale nja yakho iya kukhulula lonke uxinzelelo olufunekayo ukuba alukhulule kwaye ashiye ibhedi yakhe yedwa.

Iibhedi ezingenakuqhekeka

Ngaba zikhona iibhedi ezingenakuyaphula inja yam ngamazinyo? Impendulo nguyebo, Kwaye uya kubafumana nakwiivenkile zezilwanyana ezinobubele. Ezi zenziwe ngezinto ezinganyangekiyo eziya kuthi zivumele inja yakho ukuba isuse umnqweno wokuluma ngaphandle kokubangela ingxaki.

Nxibelelana notitshala

Ukuba konke oku kungentla akuvelisanga ziqhamo, kungcono udibane notitshala ubuze ukuba njani mfundise ukungaluma.

Ezi zonke iingcebiso esinokukunika zona ukuze inja yakho iyeke ukuluma Ibhedi yakho. Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula ukuba ukunxibelelana ngakumbi nesilwanyana sakho kuya kukwenza uyiqonde ngcono kwaye ufezekise isimilo esihle sokuhlala kunye.


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