Ukuzisa injana ekhaya okokuqala ngamava amnandi kakhulu kwilungu ngalinye losapho, nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi nje kuphela ukuba uyolo kunye nolonwabo lokwabelana ngobomi kunye nesilwanyana, kodwa kukwayinto entle uxanduva olukhulu xa kufuneka sibeke imithetho kwaye sincedise injana ukuba iqhele ikhaya layo elitsha.
Ngexesha leentsuku zakhe zokuqala kwikhaya elitsha, injana inokukhala kunye / okanye izive ingathembi kwaye ingonwabanga, njengoko izakuba ngaphakathi imeko engaqhelekanga nabantu ongabaziyo okwangoku.
Ndikunike uxolo lwengqondo
Kungenxa yoko le nto kweli nqaku malunga kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuba iinjana ziqhele ikhaya elitsha, Siza kunika iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle. Iintsana zifanelwe kukuphumla ngokufanelekileyo emva kokudlulela kumava abukhali anjengokuba yinxalenye yosapho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho intetho yeentsuku ezili-15 ubuncinci, nangona ngokwesilwanyana ngasinye, ixesha lokuziqhelanisa nalo linokuhlala iinyanga kwaye nakwimeko ezimbi kakhulu zokuziqhelanisa. Oku kuhlala kwenzeka ngezinja ezikhulu kancinci.
Kungenzeka ukuba ifayile ye- inja Ayiveli kude kube semva kwexesha lokuziqhelanisa kwaye ngaphandle kwento yokuba kwiintsuku zokuqala yonke into ibonisa ukuba injana ayibonisi naziphi na iingxaki, kunokwenzeka ukuba zivele emva kweentsuku okanye iiveki ezimbalwa.
Ukuchasana nako kunokwenzeka kwaye oko ekuqaleni kubonakala ngathi kukuziphatha, ziziphumo zoxinzelelo olwenziweyo kuphela ukuya kwikhaya elitsha, ke ziya kuthi shwaka xa uzola kwaye uhlengahlengisa kubomi bakho obutsha. Ngale ndlela, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ube noncedo kunye neengcebiso zendlela ye- ukufundisa izinja ikwazi ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo imeko, ukusombulula nayiphi na ingxaki enokubakho efuna ukutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba ibe mbi.
Ngokukwanjalo, kunokwenzeka ukumnceda ukuba afikelele kwinqanaba lokuqala ukuba uyamnika ukhuseleko, ukuthembela kwaye uzolile, ukongeza ixesha kunye nezixhobo ezichanekileyo zokunciphisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo kunye nokwenza uhlengahlengiso ngendlela efanelekileyo kwikhaya lakho elitsha. Ngale ndlela, kuya kubakho iziseko zobumnandi kunye nolwaneliseko lwexesha elizayo.
Makhe abone indawo emngqongileyo
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile xa usiza injana ekhaya masikuhlolisise kwaye ufumane indawo yakho entshaNgokwenza njalo, unokufumana izimo zengqondo ezahlukeneyo: landela umniniyo nanini na xa ehamba, hlala uzolile kwindawo enye okanye ufihle phantsi kwefanitshala.
Ujongene nayo nayiphi na kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha, kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye umvumele ukuba akhululeke ngokwaneleyo ukuba aphonononge yonke ikona yendlu eyedwa. Ngokufanelekileyo, emva kwethutyana uqala ukuphonononga kwaye ungaqala ukubona indawo ekungqongileyo, ukujoja nokusondela kuyo yonke into ngononophelo nangesantya sakho.
Ukususela ekuqaleni kufuneka aboniswe iindawo apho aya kuphumla khona, uyakwenza ishishini lakhe kwaye apho anokufumana khona ukutya namanzi, kubalulekile ukuzama ukungazitshintshi ezi ndawo, ukuze azikhumbule ngokulula, ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba ngaphambi kokuba injana ifike, ezi ndawo kuvunyelwene ngazo ilungu ngalinye losapho.
Yiba nothando
Kakhulu ii-caresses, njengamagama athambileyo zezona zidibeneyo xa unceda injana ukuba iqhele ikhaya lakhe elitsha kwaye uzive ukhuselekile.
Ukuchitha ixesha kunye nesilwanyana, usinika iithoyi, uziphathe kwaye uhlala usebenzisa ithoni ezolileyo yelizwi, kubalulekile ukufezekisa oku. Kubalulekile ukuba injana izive ithanda kwaye yamkelwe.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa kukhala injana yakho entsha ebusuku?
Ebusuku kwaye ngakumbi ekuqaleni kobomi benu kunye, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba injana ikhale, kuba injana isaqhela ikhaya layo elitsha. Ngokukhala sithetha uhlobo lokugcuma, ngokufanayo nesikhalo somntu esikhutshwa yinja.
Uninzi lweenjana ziyakwenza oku kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala, kodwa ukuba awuyazi indlela yokujongana nayo, inokuba yingxaki ehlala iiveki.