Ungayithintela njani inja yam ekukhonkothweni kwabantu?

Ngaba inja yakho iyakhonkotha ebantwini kwaye ungathanda ayeke? Ukuba kunjalo, into yokuqala yokwazi kukuba kutheni iziphatha ngoluhlobo, kuba iya kuba kuphela kwendlela yokufumana isisombululo esisebenza ngokwenene. Kodwa ungakhathazeki: siza kukunceda ufumanise imvelaphi yengxaki.

Kwakhona, siza kukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokumisa inja yam ekukhonkeleni abantu kwaye, ngale ndlela, ube sisilwanyana esonwabileyo.

kutheni izinja zikhonkotha?

Izinja ziyakwazi ukukhonkotha ngezizathu ezininzi, ezona ziphambili zezi zilandelayo:

• UkudidekaUkuba siye sashiya isilwanyana sodwa singenakho ukwenza nantoni na, okanye ukuba asiyinikeli ngqalelo kuyo yonke imihla, iya kuziva ikhathazekile, kwaye iyadika kwaye iya kukhonkotha. Ukuthintela oku, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sidlale ngayo, ukuba sikhuphe uhambo kwaye, ngamafutshane, sinikezela ixesha kuyo.
• Ukwahlukana koxinzeleloUkuba uchitha ixesha elininzi wedwa, okanye ukuba uyinja exhomekeke kakhulu kuthi, unokuba nexhala. Ukukunceda, singakunika i-kong ngelixa sikude kwaye silandele ezi ngcebiso uxinzelelo lokwahlukana.
• Iingxaki zempilo kunye / okanye ukwaluphala: Njengokuba indala, inja inokuphulukana namandla okuva kunye / okanye nokuba neengxaki zempilo eziqhelekileyo zokuguga. Ngenxa yoko, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba akhonkothe ​​xa esiva ukuba kukho into eyingozi. Thina, njengabakhathaleli bakhe, kufuneka sibesecaleni kwakhe kwaye sizame ukumthoba isidima ngomculo weklasiki okanye ngokuhambahamba (akufuneki simnike izinto zokudlala, ukuphatha okanye ukubamba xa ekule meko njengoko ingatolikwa njengomvuzo ukungaphili).
• Iingxaki nezinye izinja: Ukuba akahlalanga kakuhle, okanye ukuba ukhe wanengxabano nezinye izinja, uya kukhonkotha ukuze ezinye izilwanyana zigcine umgama othile kuye. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba ubonane nengcali ukunceda uboya ukwazi indlela yokunxibelelana neentlobo zazo.

Ungabathintela njani abantu ekukhonkothweni?

Zininzi izinto esinokuzenza ukuthintela abantu ekukhonkothweni. Eyokuqala kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu umkhuphe yonke imihla. Inja ediniweyo iya kuba sisilwanyana esingafuni ukukhonkotha kakhulu. Kodwa, ukuba uyayenza, siya kuhamba nayo ibhegi yokuphatha izinja kwaye siyakumnika yona qho xa sibona ukuba kukho umntu ozayo. Ngale ndlela, kancinci kancinci uyakudibanisa abantu nento entle (ukuphatha).

Ekhaya, kususela kumhla wokuqala, Kuyimfuneko ukuba sinxibe iimpahla zabantu abadala, sineminqwazi, nezikhafu, ... ngamafutshane, nazo zonke iintlobo zeesuti kunye neempahla. Ke, ngalo lonke ixesha sihamba inja ayizukuziva yoyikiswa nangubani kwaye iyakonwabela ukuba ngaphandle. Ngesizathu esinye, kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba umeme abantu abohlukeneyo ekhaya, abaya kukunika ukutya.

Siyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziluncedo kwinja yakho ukuyeka ukukhonkotha ebantwini 🙂.