Xa umtsha ukuba nenja, sihlala sisenza impazamo enkulu yokungabeki mda kwisilwanyana esifuywayo, umzekelo, oko kuthetha ukuba simyeke akhwele naphina kwaye simvumele nokuba akhwele kwezethu, Amaxesha inyathelo lokuqala lokulala ezinyaweni zakho naphakathi kwamashiti.
Kubaluleke kakhulu yenze icace kwinja yethu ukuba kuba sinebhedi yethu, unayo, kwaye kulapho kufuneka alale khona mihla le.
Ewe, ukuba ibhedi yethu inayo konke ukonwaba kwaye siyigcina icocekile yonke imihla, izinja zethu akufuneki zibe zincinci kwaye Kuya kufuneka simenzele ibhedi efanelekileyo kwaye emkhusela engqeleni. Kuya kubalulekile ukubeka ingubo engaqhelekanga ukuze ungene phantsi kwayo kwaye ungabandi ngalo naliphi na ixesha.
Kubalulekile ukuba umfundise malunga noku ukusukela kusuku lokuqala kwaye ungathathi manyathelo ukubuyela umva, kuba ukuba uthatha inyathelo ubuye umva kwaye ngenye imini umyeke alale ebhedini yakho, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukumlalisa ebhedini yakhe kwakhona.
Okwangoku kukho amakhulu eendawo zokuthenga enye lala inja yakho, kwaye ungazifumana zonke izinto ozidingayo azidingayo, kukwakho neemodeli ezahlukeneyo, ezinamakhulu zoyilo eziya kulungelelana ngokugqibeleleyo, umzekelo ukuhonjiswa kwegumbi lakho, kuba inye into ayivumeli inja yakho ukuba ingalali bed, kunye nenye into yokumthumela alale yedwa ekhitshini.
Ukuba unayo inja, uya kuba sele uyazi malunga ukubaluleka kwenja yakho inebhedi yayo Kwaye ukuba uza kuba nayo kungekudala, kubalulekile ukuba uzibekele injongo ephambili yokufundisa kunye nokuqinisekisa inja yakho ukuba ilale ebhedini yayo.