Xa umntu ezalwa Inkunkuma yeenjanaKuqala kunzima ukubona ngokucacileyo ukuba yindoda okanye ibhinqa, ke kwinqaku lanamhlanje siza kukunika ulwazi oluninzi lokuqonda isini senjana.
Ukwazi isini sesilwanyana kuya kukunceda kwizinto ezininzi, ukuqala ngokukhetha igama. Ke, masibone indlela yokwahlulahlula umntu obhinqileyo kwindoda, xa inja isemncinci.
Kutheni kubalulekile ukwazi isini kwiinjana?
Kukangaphi uhamba nenja enoboya esitratweni okanye epakini kwaye uve ibinzana elithi "Yintoni inja entle", ndingamphathisa? Kukangaphi ulungisa ngobunono, "Inene libhinqa"? Kungenzeka nakuwe ukuba unguye usenza impazamo enye ngalo lonke ixesha nezinja zabanye abantu.
Ukuba usandula ukufumana okanye ulungiselela ukufumana Inkunkuma yeenjana kwaye abantu bayakucela ukuba wamkele into enye kunye nesini esithile engqondweni, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukusuka kwabancinci abancinci ukuba ngabasetyhini kwaye ngabesilisa.
Abanye abantu bayakhetha kwaye bacela ngokungqalileyo injana yamadoda okanye yabasetyhini, njengoko besitsho amabhinqa azolileMhlawumbi kunjalo nokuba banamava angcono ngesini esinye senja kunenye, kuba izizathu zinokuba nzima ukuzihlalutya kwaye kungenzeki ukuziqonda okanye ukuqikelela.
Sukuba nexhala, kuya kuba lula ngakumbi ukuyazi isini sezinja xa bathe balunyulwa.
Ke unokwazi njani ukuba injana yindoda okanye ibhinqa?
Ngapha koko, kukho indlela yokufunda umahluko phakathi kweenjana zabasetyhini kunye nezamadoda, nangona kunjalo, ulumke ube nomonde Kwaye ulwalamano phakathi kweenjana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa kunye nonina lunokuba buthathaka kakhulu, kuba ukuthatha injana yosana kunina ngaphezulu kwemizuzu embalwa kwiiveki zokuqala emva kokuzalwa kunokuluguqula ulwalamano lwabo. Umama unokuyilumkela injana echitha ixesha elininzi kude kuye nakwinkunkuma yonke.
Ngokuyinene, Amathole eenkunzi anokuhlukaniswa ngamanqaku amabini asetyhula aphakanyisiweyo esiswini sabo. Abantu bahlala bebuza ukuba likhona phi iqhosha lesisu senja?
Ngokungafaniyo nabantu, indawo apho intambo eqhotyoshelwe khona enjeni iyanyamalala kwaye iphilisa ngokukhawuleza, inkaba ingezantsi nje kwesiseko sembambo. Malunga ne-intshi ngaphaya, kuyakubakho enye indawo encinci esetyhula, kulapho ipipi liza kuvela khona.
Iinjana zabafazi ziya kuba nenqaku lenkaba kuphela, kunye nezinye izisu zabo ezincinci. Ukuhlolwa ngononophelo ngasemva kwenjana yabasetyhini, ukusuka kwisiseko somsila ukuya ekuqaleni kwesisu esisezantsi, kuya kutyhila ukuvuleka kabini. I-anus, ngokuqinisekileyo, iya kuba ngaphantsi komsila, kwaye i-vulva iya kuba yinto encinci, efana neqabunga, ephantse ibe phakathi kwemilenze.
Ezinye iindlela zokufumanisa
Kwiliso lobuchwephesha, akusoloko kunyanzelekile ukuba kuhlolwe indawo engasese yesilwanyana, nangona iyinto ekufuneka yenziwe ukuba kungakho ukuthandabuza okuncinci. Kodwa, ngaphandle kweempawu esele sizichazile, kukho ezinye iinkcukacha ekwakucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba zijongwe. Umzekelo, kwindlela abaziphatha ngayo nakwindlela abahamba ngayo.
Amadoda athambekele ekubeni rougher, anobundlobongela ngakumbi kwaye ayaphuma; kwelinye icala, abantu basetyhini bathambekele ekubeni babe nokuzola kancinci. Yintoni egqithisile, iintloko zabasetyhini zihlala zineempawu ezintle, ezijikelezileyo.
Ngaba ukuchama kunokunceda ukumisela ukuba injana yindoda okanye ibhinqa?
Abanye banokungxola kulo mbuzo, becinga ukuba imifanekiso ethandabuzekayo yemikhwa yokuchama kwezinja, ezinjengezinja zabasetyhini eziqhwethayo kunye nokuxhoma izinja, iya kwenza umahluko ucace ngokwaneleyo.
Kwimidlwane yeentsana, nangona kunjalo, umntu kufuneka akhumbule ukuba njengoko iinjana zangemva kwenjana zikhula kwaye zikhula, njana zesini squat Kwaye kukuba isikhundla esithathwa ziinjana asitshintshi okwethutyana emva kokubeleka.
Kukuphi okungcono: ukuba nenja eyindoda okanye eyindoda?
Iya kuxhomekeka kakhulu kulowo nalowo. Ukuba ubuza kum Ndikhetha umntu obhinqileyo, kuba ngokubanzi bazolile kwaye bathanda ngakumbi. Kodwa ndidibene nezinja ezingamadoda ezazingummangaliso: zikrelekrele, ziyadlala, kutheni ungatsho njalo? Inomtsalane.
Endaweni yokukhetha inja ngesini sayo, ndingacebisa ukuba ikhethe isimilo sayo. Ngaphambi kokuba umgoduse, chitha ixesha kunye naye, udlale naye, uhambe naye xa sele enayo izitofu eziyimfuneko.
Nangona isimilo senjana sinokutshintsha ukutyhubela iminyaka, ukuba ngexa lobutsha baso sasisisilwanyana esinovalo kakhulu, leyo yinto engenakuze itshintshe. Unokuphumla, ewe, kodwa awuyi kuphulukana nolo luvo.
Ngoko ke ukuba ungumntu ozolileyo, khetha injana enje Kananjalo, ngale ndlela uya konwaba ngakumbi.
Soloko ulumke kakhulu kwaye ulumke
Iinjana ziqala ukufunda kunina mzuzu wokuzalwa kwazo, ke ngoko ukuthatha abantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa rhoqo phambi kweeveki ezintathu ukuya kwezine ubudala kubeka emngciphekweni wokuba gcina ithole kude kunina, ezingabangeli kuphela uxinzelelo, kodwa kunye nokukhathazeka kwiintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa.