Uma unezinja ekhaya uzokwazi, i- ubunzima bokubafundisa nokubanakekela Njengoba kufanele. Abangane bethu abathembekile, kwasekuzalweni kwabo, abazi ukuthi yini okufanele ilandelwe. Yithina okufanele sibahole, kube sengathi yizingane ezincane, ukuze bazi uziphathe ngokufanele ekhaya nasemphakathini.
Kodwa-ke, ukungabi nalwazi nokuntuleka kolwazi, kwenza abanikazi abaningi bazibophezele amaphutha ngezinja okuthi, uma zingalungisiwe ngokushesha, zingadala imikhuba emibi okunzima ukuyilungisa.
Banikeze imiklomelo eminingi kakhulu
Yize kuliqiniso, izinja zifunda kalula uma sisebenzisa imivuzo ukuzikhuthaza. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akufanele kube ukudla kwakho okuyinhloko, kepha izogcina ibaqonda njengento ejwayelekile, hhayi njengemiklomelo. Siphakamisa ukuthi futhi ubhekane nemiklomelo ngenye indlela yokubuka: umklomelo akudingeki ukuthi ube uswidi nje, kungaba futhi izwe elikhuphuka intaba.
Yenza kube ngokwakho
Ungabaklolodeli abantu bakho abanoboya ubacabanga sengathi bangabantu, ngokwesibonelo ukumgqokisa noma ukupenda izinzipho zakhe. Uma umphatha njengomuntu, uzokuphathisa okwenja. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi impisi isengumzala wayo wesibili, nokuthi bayizilwane, nokuthi ngenxa yalokho, abayithandi imfashini, futhi abazizwa bebahle ngokwengeziwe uma begqoka umbala owodwa noma omunye.
Bajezise njalo
Ungalokothi ubahlukumeze ngezijeziso. Khumbula lokho ukujezisa kuyithuluzi lokufundisa, hhayi ilungelo legunya. Kufanele isetshenziswe kuphela lapho kwenziwa iphutha, hhayi ngemuva kwalokho, ngoba isilwane asisoze saqonda ukuthi isijeziso senziwa yini. Ungakhohlwa nalokho ukujeziswa akumele kwenziwe ngodlame, kwanele ukusho ngendlela ecacile nenamandla: CHA. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isijeziso esisetshenziswe ngokweqile sizomane senze inja ithole ubuntu obusolisayo nobesabekayo.
Kungase kukuthande: Ungayijezisa kanjani inja
Ukubanika uthando oluningi ngokweqile
Ngokuphambene impela nephuzu langaphambilini, kepha hhayi kangako. Ukulingisa okwenziwe ngokweqile kuyiphutha esihlala silenza. Izinja, kunjalo, zijabulela uthando lwamakhosi azo, ziyaludinga ukuze zizizwe zijabule futhi zilinganisela, kepha Uthando alusho ukuthi ubanike ngokwanga okungaba ngu-40 ngomzuzu. Uthando olungenamibandela luyisidingo somnikazi uqobo, kunesifiso senja. Beza kithi befuna uthando, kepha ngemithetho, imisebenzi, ubuholi, imidlalo, njll. Zama ukulawula uthando olungenamibandela ukuze inja ikhule inesimo sokulinganisela. Noma ngabe kwenziwa okuncane, akukho okuzokwenzeka futhi.
Bangenise ngokweqile
Igama elithi NO libaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi lisetshenziswa kanjani. Ungesabi ukutshela uboya bakho ukuthi kukhona okungafanele akwenze ngoba akulungile. Kufanele ubeke imingcele. Baziqonda kalula, bathola inhlonipho yabo ngokunika ama-oda lapho benze okuthile okungafanele bakwenze. Kubalulekile ukuthi ubheke ukuthi ukuqondisisile yini nokuthi ukuthobele, ngale ndlela, ngesikhathi esizayo lapho ezokwazi khona ukuthi akumele akwenze. Imvume, noma kunjalo, izosho ukungabi nandaba nemikhuba, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, engeke iguquke.
Bajwayele ukulala embhedeni
Ukuthi izinja zilele embhedeni noma cha kuyisinqumo okufanele usenze wena wedwa futhi wedwa. Vele, uma uhlela ukubavumela balayishe isikhashana, khumbula lokho bazojwayela futhi bazokucela ukuthi ulale khona nsuku zonke. Kubo, umbhede uyindlela ekhululekile kunazo zonke, futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokuba phezulu, bayaqonda ukuthi ezingeni lokulandelana kwabo basezingeni elifanayo nawe. Emaphaketheni, impisi elele phezulu kakhulu ingumholi.
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Bayeke bodwa isikhathi eside kakhulu
Inja enganakiwe iyinja engajabule. Ukubashiya bodwa isikhathi eside kuzosho ukuthi bahlakulela isimilo esingafanele, ubuntu obukhathazayo nobunovalo, nokungathembi umhlaba wonke. Ukuxhumana nsuku zonke nabanikazi bazo nezinye izinja kubaluleke kakhulu ekulinganiseni ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo kwezinja zethu ezinoboya.
Ungabakhipheli ngaphandle
Akudingeki nje kuphela ukuthi babambane, kubalulekile futhi ukuthi balandele inqubo ejwayelekile yomzimba. Bathanda ukuhogela, ukugijima, ukuzwa imizwa emisha nokuthola iphunga elisha. Ungabaphuci lesi sidingo esiyisisekelo, uzikhiphe njalo ukuze uzikhulule futhi usebenzise amandla azo. Ngale ndlela, bazolala kangcono, bazokwenza indlu ingangcoli kangako, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, bazojabula kakhulu.
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