Fundisa umdlwane uku zikhulule ngaphandle kwekhaya Kungaba umsebenzi olula noma, kunalokho, inqubo ende futhi enzima, ngoba ezinye izinja zikuthola kunzima kakhulu kunezinye ukuthola lo mkhuba. Kodwa-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukubekezela, nokuqiniswa okuhle, singayixazulula le nkinga. Sikunikeza amathiphu ngakho.
Okokuqala, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi umdlwane awukwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle uze uthole yonke imigomo edingekayo (cishe izinyanga ezine). Kuze kube yileso sikhathi singamfundisa ukukhipha ekhoneni esililungiselela ikakhulukazi, ngezinsipho noma iphephandaba, elitholakala kude nezindawo lapho adla futhi alala khona. Indlela enhle yokwenza lokhu ukuhlala uqaphile ngezikhathi ezibalulekile (lapho uvuka, ngemuva nje kokudla ...), ukuholela isilwane kuleli kona bese usiklomelisa lapho zikhulule.
Lapho nje lesi sigaba sokuqala sokugoma sesiphelile, kuzofanele sishintshe amaphephandaba noma insipho emgwaqweni. Sizokufeza lokhu ngokukhipha inja ngalezo zikhathi ezibalulekile ebesikhuluma ngazo, futhi umklomelise lapho eyeka umusi emgwaqweni. Kwezinye izimo inja ifunda ngokushesha lo mthetho omusha, kanti kwezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuthi ivumelane nezimo futhi iqhubeke nokusebenzisa ikona ebesilimise ngaphambilini endlini yethu "ukuya endlini yangasese."
Uma kunjalo, akukho okungcono kunokuthi wandise inani lokuhamba nsuku zonke noma uwandise kuze kube yilapho isilwane ekugcineni senza ukufakwa kwaso ngaphandle. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukumvuza njalo uma enza kahle futhi angabuyeli ekhaya ngokushesha ngemuva kwalokho, kepha ukuqhubeka nokuhamba imizuzu embalwa.
Futhi, kufanele siyeke ukumklomelisa njalo uma esebenzisa amaphephandaba noma insipho esikhulume ngaye phambilini. Esikhundleni salokho, kuzofanele sisho ngokuqinile ukuthi "cha" kuye futhi simyise emgwaqweni ngokushesha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhamba kufanele kube nesimiso esinqunyiwe, ngoba inqubo ingumlingani omkhulu kuleli cala. Futhi-ke, ukujeziswa nokujeziswa ngokomzimba akunqatshelwe ngokuphelele, njengoba zingasebenzi futhi zingadala umonakalo omkhulu esilwaneni.
Yonke le nqubo ingathatha izinsuku, amasonto noma izinyanga, konke kuncike ezicini ezithile. Kunoma ikuphi sizodinga isikhathi nokubekezela okuningi, kepha ngokulandela le mihlahlandlela singayifinyelela.