Ungawugubha kanjani umshado wami nenja yami?

inja egqoke kahle emshadweni wabaninizo

Cabanga ukuthi usunayo usuku olukhonjisiwe, usuvele uthengile izindandatho, isimemo ngasinye sithunyelwe, phakathi kokunye. Cishe yonke into ikulungele ukuthi uthathe lesi sinyathelo lokho kubaluleke kakhulu nokuba no-Yebo engikufunayo ngosuku lomshado.

Kodwa-ke kukhona kodwa okufanele ukubheke, futhi-ke sikhuluma ngenja. Lesi akusona isilwane nje kuphela, kodwa futhi siyilungu lomndeni elibalulekile yingakho abantu abaningi bengacabangi ukuchitha lolu suku ngaphandle kwenkampani yabo. Yize kulokhu ungadingi ukukhathazeka kakhulu ngoba kunezinhlangano ezinikela ngezinsizakalo zazo ukukusiza kulolu hlobo lwesimo.

Uma inja yakho bekunguyena obeshada, bengizokumema nawe

inja eduze kwezithandani ezivalelisayo

Enye indlela yalawa ma-ejensi yenzelwe ikakhulukazi labo bantu ababheke umlingani wabo we-canine njengo ilungu elibalulekile lomndeni.

Njengoba kwenzeka lapho uhlela ukumema umuntu ngamunye kubantu obathanda kakhulu ukuba abe nawe ngosuku olukhethekile njengalolu, impela awukwazi ukucabanga ukuthi inja yakho ikude nalo mgubho. Futhi okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi inja yakho ibikade inawe isikhathi eside ngisho nangaphezu kwalezi zithandani, futhi uma kwesinye isikhathi umshado phakathi kwalaba bobabili uchitheka, uthando olukhonjiswa yinja yakho luyohlala lungenamibandela futhi luyohlala njalo.

Ukuze inja ibe yingxenye yezivakashi ezikhethekile emshadweni wakho, Ungacela usizo lomngane noma nelungu lomndeni ukuphatha ukunakekelwa komdlwane isikhathi somkhosi.

Noma kunjalo, kusobala ukuthi lo muntu uzoba nomsebenzi omkhulu, ngakho-ke ungahle ungaluthokozeli ngokugcwele lolo suku, futhi kungahle kube nezikhathi lapho ungalunaki kangako. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi uma ufuna inja yakho nezinye izivakashi babe nesikhathi esingasoze salibaleka, ungabheka umlindi wezinja.

Futhi lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngenkonzo yabo yomshado, bangaphatha ukuthola umnakekeli ofanele kakhulu ukuze inja yakho izwe kahle ngomkhosi womshado. Lo ngumuntu ozokusiza ngokunakekelwa kwakho inqobo nje uma uyidinga, ongasizakala ngayo ngalokhu ukuthatha iseshini enhle yezithombe lapho inja yakho ikhona futhi kungaba yimemori ongasoze wayikhohlwa.

Imishado ivame ukuhlala amahora amade futhi uma uthanda, umnakekeli angakwazi ukunakekela ukuhambisa umdlwane ekhaya futhi ngizoqhubeka nokunakekelwa ukuze ube nethuba lokujabulela idina elimnandi, iphathi nobusuku bomshado obubabazekayo.

Amanye amathiphu ukuze konke kuvele kahle emshadweni

Khuluma ngakho konke lokhu kubantu ababandakanyekayo, noma ngabe bakhona izivakashi, umthwebuli zithombe, abasebenza emcimbini zombili ezomphakathi nezenkolo, amalungu akha ukudla, phakathi kwabanye.

Ezinye zazo zingase zingavumelani kangako futhi kungalesi sizathu ukuthi kufanele uhlale uzilungiselele futhi unikeze incazelo yalokho onqume ngakho. Ngokusobala usuku olubaluleke kakhulu nolukhethekile kuwe, ngoba uma ufuna inja yakho ibekhona emshadweni, kuzoba njalo.

Uma kwenzeka umhlinzeki engavumelani ngokugcwele nalokhu, kufanele ukuthi ukubheke lokho ngaphambi kwesikhathi ukuthola omunye umuntu. Ngokuvamile, abantu obamemile yibo abangakwazi kangcono, bazokwazi ukuthi inja ibaluleke kakhulu yingakho bengasiqonda isimo. Uma kwenzeka kungenjalo, futhi yisikhathi esifanelekile sokucabanga ngesinqumo esingcono maqondana nesimemo.

Ukuhlela kanye nokuhleleka kuyizinto ezibalulekile empumelelweni: Uma ufuna ngempela ukuthola usizo ngalunye olunikezwa umhleli wezinja losuku olukhethekile njengomkhosi wakho womshado, kufanele uqale ukuyifuna kusenesikhathi.

Lolu usuku lapho wonke umuntu kufanele agqoke ngokugcwele, aqale ngenja. Njengoba kungenzeka wazi, ku umshado uzohlala uthatha izithombe eziningi, uchwepheshe kwezokuthwebula izithombe uqashelwe ngisho nokukusiza ukuthi uhlale ukhumbula umzuzu onjengalona empilweni yakho yonke.

Njengoba nje kwenzeka ukuthi izivakashi nabashadikazi bachithe umgubho begqoke okuhle kakhulu, kuyanconywa ukuthi wenze lokhu nomngane wakho onoboya. Akukona okokugqokisa inja yakho kokuthile okuyisilima, ngoba lokhu akumnandi neze kunoma yisiphi isilwane. Kepha ongakwenza ukubeka isesekeli esincane esifana neduku, uthayi omuhle womnsalo noma okuthize.

izithandani zomshado ezijaha inja emnyama

Ungakhohlwa futhi lokho inja yakho kufanele igeze ngaphambi kokuba ifike isikhathi somshado oshiwo ngenhla, futhi uma kunesidingo, ungathatha futhi nethuba lokumyisa kumkhombisi wezinja ukugunda izinwele okuhle.

Uma kwenzeka ukuthi uthathe isinqumo sokujabulela i-honeymoon futhi ungazi ukuthi ngubani ongakwazi ukunakekela lokho okudingwa yinja yakho, ngendlela efanayo ungakhetha enye indlela yokuqasha izinsizakalo zomnakekeli canido. Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi wena nomlingani wakho nigubha uthando endaweni enhle, umngani wakho we-canine uzokujabulela ukunakekelwa okuhle nangalo lonke uthando ukuze angazizwa eyedwa nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.

Inhloso enkulu yalokhu ukuthi izinja zingahlala zizizwa zijabule lapho umnikazi wazo engekho ekhaya nokuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi babe nenduduzo abayidingayo, ngokunakekelwa okufanele kakhulu ukuze bazizwe besekhaya futhi ukuze kungabikho sikhathi lapho bezolahlekelwa khona okuthile.

Futhi kuyindlela enhle yokwenza impilo ibe lula kakhulu kubaninikhaya, ukuze ngale ndlela bahlale bezolile ngesikhathi sokungabikho izinsuku ezimbalwa inqobo nje uma bengazi ukuthi inja yabo ithola konke ukunakwa okudingekayo. Akunasikhathi lapho ababelindele khona ukuthi uthando olungaka luzovela emsamo onjengalona, ​​kodwa ukuthi ezindabeni ezinjengalezi bangathola ukuthi bangakwazisa ngempela.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.