Ingabe izinja ziyabazi abazali bazo?

Izinja zabantu abadala

Abantu abavamile ukuba nesikhathi esinzima ukwazisa abazali bethu, noma ngabe sekuphele iminyaka bengababoni, kodwa… kuthiwani ngezinja? Iqiniso ukuthi lo ngumbuzo abelokhu bezibuza wona abacwaningi, abathi kancane kancane bebethola imininingwane eminingi ngokwengeziwe mayelana nekhono lalaba abanoboya lokubona abathandekayo babo.

Manje sebeyayazi impendulo, futhi ngiyakuqinisekisa ukuthi izokumangaza. Ngakho-ke Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi izinja ziyababona yini abazali bazo, ungayeki ukufunda! 🙂

Isikhathi esibucayi sezinja

Inja enebhola

Izinja, kusuka emavikini amabili kuya ezinyangeni ezintathu ubudala, kudlula esikhathini esaziwa njengesikhathi esibucayi. Ngalezo zinsuku bazwela kakhulu kukho konke okwenzekayo kubo; Kungakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bathole ngokushesha okukhulu okungukuthi, okokuqala, ukuphepha nothando lukanina, bese kuthi, ngezinyanga ezimbili, imfudumalo (ukuphepha, ukwethenjwa, ukutotosa) kwekhaya elihle lomuntu.

Uma yonke into ihamba njengoba kufanele, okungukuthi, ngaphandle kokushaqeka noma ukuhlukumezeka kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo, imidlwane ekhula nabazali bayo izokwazi ukubabona uma sebekhulile; yize kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi kube nzima kangako kubo ukuthi babone umama wabo kunobaba wabo, ngoba lapho beseyizingane bachitha isikhathi esiningi naye.

ICanine iphunga

Umuzwa wezinja wokuhogela ukhule kakhulu kunokwethu. Izindlala zabo ezinephunga zibahlinzeka ngemininingwane eminingi evela kwabanye emindenini yabo nakwezinye izilwane. Ngokwalesi sizathu, UDkt Lore Haug, uchwepheshe wezilwane ekuziphatheni kwezilwane, usola lokho ngenxa yaleli khono bangakwazi ukubona abanye abaye baxoxa nabo ngisho nangemva kweminyaka behlukene.

Vele, ngeke babazi ubudlelwano ababenabo nalabo abanoboya, kepha ingxenye yabo izobatshela ukuthi bajwayelene kakhulu. Futhi ukusuka lapho, kungenzeka izinto ezimbili:

  • Eyodwa: mabajabule kakhulu banikezane ngezikhotha ezimbalwa;
  • Noma ezimbili: ukuthi basabela kabi; okungukuthi, bayabhonga noma omunye walaba ababili uyajika. Ngokusobala, lokhu kuzokwenzeka kuphela uma behlangabezana nokubi esikhathini esedlule.

Uyakwazi ukubona ubuso?

Kubantu, abanye ngokwengeziwe kanti abanye bangaphansi, akunzima ngathi ukukhumbula ubuso (ngiyagcizelela, kuya ngokuthi ngubani 🙂), kepha akusibona bodwa: imvelo inikeze nabangane bethu bezinja lelo khono. Kungaphezulu: Abagcini nje ngokubona ubuso bezinye izinja, kodwa futhi akunzima kangako kubo ukuthi bazi ukuthi imuphi umuntu oyingxenye yombuthano wabo wabaziyo noma ongeyona.

Lokhu yinto echazwe ngabaphenyi ocwaningweni lwango-2009. Bakhombise uchungechunge lwezinja izithombe zobuso bezinye izinja abazaziyo, nezinye zezinja ezazingajwayelekile kubo. Basabela kanjani?

Ekugcineni, babheka isikhathi eside ezithombeni zezinja ababezazi, okukhombisa ukuthi babheka izici zobuso lapho behlukanisa phakathi kwezinja ezinoboya ezaziwayo nezingaziwa. Obunye ubufakazi bokuthi lezi zilwane ziyakwazi ukubona abazali bazo.

Izingane ziyakwazi ukubona abazali ... kepha okuphambene nalokhu kungenzeka kungenzeki

Izinja zesibhakela

Imidlwane nezinja ezindala ezingaphansi kweminyaka eyisikhombisa ngokuvamile azinankinga yokwazi abazali bazo, njengoba isikhathi sabo sokunaka siside. Kodwa-ke, lapho isifanekiso somuntu omdala sihlanganiswa nabazali baso abangaphezu kwaleyo minyaka bangase bangakwazi ukubona izingane zabo.

Ngabe lesi sihloko sibe nentshisekelo kuwe? Uma kunjalo, unganqikazi ukuwabelana nabangani bakho kanye / noma nomndeni.


Amazwana, shiya okwakho

Shiya umbono wakho

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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.

  1.   carmen kusho

    sawubona, inja yami ingumalusi wase-Australia, isivele ineminyaka engu-2 ubudala futhi umakhelwane wami unoyise, bobabili bavame ukuba ndawonye kodwa kamuva nje inja yami iyamkhonkotha, iyamgquma futhi ingamvumeli ukuba enze noma yini. thina noyise kuphela unikeza Ajike ahambe, siyafisa ukwazi yingakho ebuza ukuthi izinja ziyabazi yini abazali bazo, kulokhu uyise kuphela.