Kungakhathalekile ukuthi uhlobo luni, ubukhulu, noma imfundo inja eyitholile, inokuthambekela kwemvelo ekubhekeni ukubusa noma ukuzithoba. Ngokulandelayo, le mininingwane inomthelela endleleni yabo yokuzihlanganisa nabanye abantu noma izilwane, kwesinye isikhathi idala izinkinga zokuziphatha. Yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi sifunde ukuhlukanisa lezi ziphatha.
Kunemibono eminingi mayelana nobuholi emaphaketheni ezinja, okudala imiqondo efana ne- "alpha male." Kunoma ikuphi, iqiniso ukuthi ezinye izinja zibonisa ukuthambekela kwemvelo koku ukubusa, izibeka endaweni yokuqala ngaphakathi esigabeni sabaphathi. Lokhu akudingeki kuholele ku- isimilo esinolaka; kodwa-ke, kwesinye isikhathi kuvela lezi zinhlobo zezinkinga, ngakho-ke kuyalulekwa ukuthatha izinyathelo ezithile zokuqapha.
Ngazi kanjani ukuthi inja yami iyabusa?
Akulula ukucacisa ukuthi inja ibusa ngempela yini, ngoba kulokhu kufanele sibheke indlela esiziphatha ngayo nezinye izilwane nabantu isikhathi eside. Noma kunjalo, zikhona ezinye izimpawu okukhombisa ukuthi isilwane singaba nezinkinga zokubusa:
- Sigibela kwezinye izinja, kungaba insikazi noma iduna.
- Unenkani, wenqaba ukuthobela imiyalo eyisisekelo yokuqeqeshwa.
- Ukukhonkotha okungapheli ukuthola lokho abakufunayo, kukhombisa izinga eliphezulu lokufunwa kwabanye.
- Uthanda ukuhlala ezindaweni eziphakeme.
- Uyaphikelela ukuhamba phambi kwethu ngesikhathi sokuhamba.
- Ususa ukudla kwethu epuletini.
- Yiba nabathandekayo bakho lapho kufika umuntu ongamazi.
- Uyakuzonda ukuba sekhaya yedwa.
- Phikelela ukuwina kuyo yonke imidlalo.
- Ubhekisisa abanye abantu nezilwane ngokudelela.
Yini okufanele uyenze?
Uma kukhulunywa ngokufundisa inja ebusayo, kufanele sichithe isilinganiso esihle sokuzola nokubekezela. I- ukuqinisa okuhle Kuzoba umlingani wethu omkhulu, kepha hhayi ukumemeza nokucindezela, okwenza isimo sibe sibi kakhulu; futhi-ke, ukujeziswa ngokomzimba akunakuphikiswa. Kuzofanele sibeke imithetho futhi siqiniseke ukuthi uyahambisana nayo, simklomelise ngokudla nangamathoyizi noma kunini lapho kunje.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi sinikele cishe imizuzu eyi-15 kuye kwengama-20 ngosuku ukuqinisa imiyalo yokulalela, njengokuhlala phansi, ukulala phansi, noma ukuhlala unganyakazi. Ngokufanayo, kufanele sifunde ukuhola ukuhamba, senze inja ihambe eceleni kwethu ngaphandle kokujeqeza noma ukukhonkotha kwabanye. Lapho isimo siba nzima kuze kube sezingeni lokungalawuleki, kungcono ukubona uthisha oqeqeshiwe.