Uma ungumthandi wezinja njengathi, uzibekele umgomo wakho ngonyaka ozayo ubanakekele kakhulu futhi ubaphathe ngendlela efanele, ngaphezu kwezinye izinjongo eziningi zempilo yakho.
Ukuzama ukujabula kancane, lahla lawo kilos angeziwe futhi ube nomzimba omncane, yilezo zinhloso kwesinye isikhathi okunzima kakhulu ukuthi sizifeze, kepha ngezinja zakho ozithandayo ungazibekela imigomo okuzoba lula ukuyifeza futhi bazojabula kakhulu ngokuthi bazokudlulisela kuwe ngothando lwabo.
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Zondle izinja zakho kahle
Izidingo zansuku zonke zisenza sikhohlwe imininingwane ethile ebalulekile ukuthi inja yakho ibe sesimweni esihle. Izikhathi eziningi, isikhathi esisichitha singekho ekhaya sisho ukuthi asinaso isikhathi sokuya esitolo lapho bathengisa khona ikhwalithi engcono kakhulu nokudla okunempilo kakhulu kuyinja yethu esiyithandayo.
Kungakho kufanele uphakamise ukuthola lowo mzuzu osukwini ukuze ukwazi ukuthola Ngicabanga ukuthi kungcono ngenja yakho. Ikhwalithi enhle yokuphakelayo ingashintsha ikhwalithi yempilo yakhoNgenxa yokuthi ukudla kwakho kunamalungu angcono, izitho zakho nemisebenzi yakho ebalulekile izokhula ngcono.
Ukuphakelwa okungalungile kungakulethela izinkinga zezinso okokuqala, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi zithonya ikhwalithi yejazi labo futhi zilethe okunye ukuphazamiseka ongasifiseli isithandwa sakho esinoboya. Njengeseluleko sikutshela ukuthi ubheke imibono eyehlukene eyenziwe ku-intanethi mayelana nemikhiqizo eyahlukahlukene yokondla inja yakho, ukuze uthole leyo ekhonjisiwe ukuze izizwe ingcono kakhulu futhi ijabulele impilo enhle.
Chitha isikhathi esithe xaxa kuzo
Kungenzeka ukuthi izinja zakho zinomnakekeli othembekile futhi uzizwa ukuthi zihlala kahle nazo, zichitha isikhathi ngenkathi umatasa noma umatasa nezinye izibopho futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso. Kepha inja yakho izohlala ikulindile nalo lonke uthando ongamnika lona kuphela futhi uyohlale efuna ukuthi kube nguwe ophonsa ibhola kuye, ogijima eceleni kwakhe futhi omnikeza lonke uthando ongamnika lona.
Kwenze umgomo ukuzama ukufaka ku-ajenda izikhathi zakho ezimiselwe ukuba nenja yakho oyithandayo, ukuze ngaleso sikhathi kungabi bikho uhlobo lwesibopho noma olunye uhlobo lokuphazamiseka olukuyisa kwenye indawo futhi ungaba naye, ukumkhipha ahambe epaki, adlale futhi amnike lonke uthando olumfanele.
Khombisa wonke umuntu owaziyo ubuhle bokwamukela
La ukwamukelwa kwesilwane ngendlela efanele Ngenye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu ezingenzeka kuwe. Izindawo zokukhosela izilwane zigcwele izinja ezilinde umuntu ukuthi azithathe. Kuzokwanela nje ukuthi usondele kwenye yalezi ubone ukuthi bonke ubuso balabo abanoboya obuhle buza kanjani kuwe, ukukucela ukuthi uhambe nabo, ubanikeze lonke uthando olubafanele futhi bakulinde futhi bakuthole ngenkulu injabulo lapho ufika ekhaya ukhathele ngenxa yomsebenzi.
Zama ukufundisa wonke umuntu omaziyo ngokubaluleka kokutholwa inja, esikhundleni sokuthola izinja ezizalisayo ngemali ephezulu. Ngokuvamile, bahlushwa uhlobo oluthile lokuhlukunyezwa futhi abangane bakho nomndeni wakho nabo bangabenza bajabule kakhulu.
Zama ukukhombisa izihlobo zakho zonke izindawo zokukhosela onazo eduze futhi uxhumane nazo, ukuze esikhundleni sokuthenga inja yamukele futhi ubenze bakhohlwe lezo zikhathi ezimbi, zokudlulela ezweni lokutotosa, ukunakekela nenjabulo, abazokubonga ngothando oluningi.
Thuthukisa inzalo
Sonke singathanda ukubona izinja zethu zinemidlwane enhle, kepha ngasikhathi sinye kufanele sicabange ukuthi inani elikhulu lemidlwane esingalibona ezindlini zokukhosela noma emigwaqweni, ngaphandle kokunakekelwa futhi lidla okusele lapho lingavela khona, kuhlobene nokushoda kwenzalo.
Isibalo semidlwane esizalwayo sigcwalisa amadolobha ngezinja kakhulu futhi lokho kusho ukuthi kunezinja eziningi kunabantu abazimisele ukuzinakekela. Kusuka endaweni yakho ungaqala ngokuhlanza izinja zakho, bese ubuye utshele zonke izihlobo zakho ngokubaluleka kokungabi nayo imidlwane eminingi ngenxa yokuzalwa okukhulu.
Ngale ndlela uzobe unikela emphakathini, ngoba ngeke nje wenze izinja zibe sempilweni engcono, kepha futhi uzovikela konke ukuzalwa okungafuneki, okuvame ukufika ekugcineni okuhle kakhulu, ngalezo zinja ezibekwe ezindlini zokukhosela futhi ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu lapho izinja zizulazula emigwaqweni ngokungenanjongo, ukungondli kahle futhi ngenxa yalokho empilweni ebuthaka.
Yiba nentshisekelo kuzinhlelo zobumbano
Njengoba nje uphakamisa unyaka lapho unikeza khona ukubaluleka okukhulu empilweni enhle yezilwane ezifuywayo, kunabantu abaningi asebenze isikhathi eside, eza ukwakha izinhlangano zosizo nezinhlangano zezinja ezixoshiwe futhi ezidinga ukunakekelwa okukhulu.
Lokhu kuhamba kobumbano kudinga, phakathi kwezinye izinto, iminikelo yemali, ngakho-ke Ungasesha lezi zinhlangano ezinikezelwe ukuvikela izilwane futhi unikele ngokusemandleni akho ukuze imidlwane nezinye izilwane ezifuywayo zibe ngcono kakhulu. Bamba iqhaza emicimbini ngezinjongo zokusiza abazenzayo futhi unikele lapho ungakhona.
Kwesinye isikhathi kungenzeka ukuthi awunayo imali, kepha ukubamba iqhaza kule mibuthano yobumbano, unikela ngokuba khona futhi uhlele le micimbi, ukukhuthaza usizo emphakathini, kuzokwanela uzobe wenza okuhle kuzo zonke izilwane ezisemzini wakho.
Fundisa ngenhlonipho yezilwane
Imfundo mayelana inhlonipho, uthando nokunakekela okufanele sikunikeze izilwane zethu ezifuywayo kuyinto enhle ekhethekile yokuqwashisa, ikakhulukazi ukuthi wonke umuntu ayiqonde kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Kungakho, uma uthatha isikhathi esidingekayo, kungaba kuhle kakhulu uma ufundisa izingane zakho, abashana bakho nazo zonke izingane ozaziyo, ngokubaluleka kokunakekela izinja kanye banikeze lonke uthando olubafanele, ngaphandle kokubandlulula noma ukubasusa.
Kunezindawo eziningi zokusabalalisa izinyathelo okufanele zilandelwe zokwelashwa okuhle kwezilwane, lapho ungathola khona imibono yokufundisa ngakho. Zama ukufeza lezi zinhloso futhi uzozizwa ungcono kakhulu empilweni, ukunakekela lezi zidalwa ezisithandayo njengoba sizithanda.