Ungayenza kanjani injana iyeke ukusiluma

Umdlwane uluma iminwe yomuntu ngenkathi edlala.

Kunesigaba empilweni yomdlwane lapho ezwa khona isidingo sokwenza lokho luma konke okuzungezile, into ikakhulukazi ebangelwa ukuthi amazinyo akhe aseqala ukuphuma. Ngakho-ke, inja kungenzeka ukuthi ilume futhi ibhubhise izinto zethu kaningi, futhi ize ithole umkhuba we silume U.S. Yize kungukuziphatha okungokwemvelo kulesi sikhathi esikuso, kufanele sikulungise ukuze sikuvikele ekubeni yinkinga enkulu.

Izimbangela ezivamile

Ukuthola isisombululo, isinyathelo sokuqala ukuthola ukuthi imvelaphi yalokhu kuziphatha. Phakathi kwezizathu ezivame kakhulu esizitholayo:

  1. Ilukuluku. Inja iyisilwane esihlolayo ngokwemvelo futhi lapho isencane isebenzisa umlomo wayo ukubona okukuzungezile. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zokuqala, uzobamba noma yini eheha iso lakhe.
  2. Ukulunyulwa kokuqala. Imidlwane ehlukaniswe nonina ngokushesha okukhulu inokuthambekela okukhulu kokuluma kunabanye. Futhi ukuthi izinja zifunda ukulawula ukuqina kokulunywa kwazo ngokusebenzelana nabazali bazo, abakhala lapho ziluma zisancela, nangokudlala nabafowabo, abasabela ngendlela efanayo.
  3. Isithukuthezi kanye / noma ukukhathazeka. Uma umdlwane wakho ungasebenzi noma uchitha isikhathi esiningi uwedwa ekhaya, angazama ukwehlisa amandla akhe noma ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngokuluma, ngoba ukubhubhisa izinto ngamazinyo akhe kungaba ukuzijabulisa okulungile kuye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, mhlawumbe ukuthola kukujabulisa ukuluma izandla neminwe yethu lapho sidlala naye.
  4. Ubuhlungu bezinsini. Ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila, imidlwane iba nobuhlungu ezinsinini zabo ngenkathi kuphuma amazinyo, okuyinto engathandeki abazama ukuyithiba ngokuluma konke abakutholayo.

Amasu okukugwema

  1. Ukumemeza okuncane. Njalo lapho umdlwane usiluma, singakhipha isililo esincane ukukhombisa ukuthi siyasilimaza. Kufanele siyeke ukumemeza ngokushesha nje lapho eyeka ukumba, ngoba asifuni ukumthusa. Lapho eseyekile ukuluma, kufanele simnikeze ithoyizi ukuze akwazi ukuliveza.
  2. Gwema ukudlala ngezandla nangezinyawo. Uma silinga isilwane ngale ndlela, kungenzeka sigcine sizama "ukusibamba" ngamazinyo aso. Kungcono uthole amathoyizi akhethekile okuhlafuna kulesi sigaba futhi umkhuthaze ukuthi ajabule nawo ngokuwahambisa.
  3. Ukungavunyelwa. Lapho inja iqala ukuluma noma yiziphi izinto zethu, kufanele siyenqabe ngokuqinile; "Cha" noma "Kwanele" kuzokwanela. Ngemuva kwalokho, kufanele simkhombise elinye lamathoyizi akhe ukuze aqonde ukuthi angawaluma.
  4. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba. Ukuhamba kwansuku zonke kubalulekile, njengoba kusiza inja ukuthi ibhalansise amandla ayo engqondo nawomzimba, ukuze ekhaya bazizwe bezolile futhi bathobele imiyalo yokulalela kalula. Kodwa-ke, akakwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle kuze kugonywe imigomo edingekayo, ngakho-ke ezinyangeni zokuqala ukuvivinya umzimba kwakhe kuzosuselwa emidlalweni yangaphakathi ekhaya.

Kuyinqubo yokufunda engasheshi, ngakho-ke kungaba ngcono ngathi ukuthi sazi futhi sichithe isilinganiso esihle sokubekezelela ingane yethu encane. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nangokulandela lezi zindlela, nakanjani sizofinyelela enhlosweni yethu.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.