Akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukukwenza ukuhlala ndawonye phakathi kwezilwane ezahlukahlukene, ngakho-ke lapho wethula isilwane esisha ekhaya, kungcono ukuthi sithathe izinyathelo ezithile zokuqapha. Isimo esinjalo kungaba, isibonelo, lapho sizama ukwenza inja nonogwaja abangani, okuthile esizokufeza ngokulandela izeluleko ezimbalwa ezilula.
Okokuqala, kufanele sazi ukuthi unogwaja ngokwemvelo udlala indima yezisulu, kuyilapho inja ingumhlaseli, into engacindezela ngempela owokuqala. Ukugwema noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana kufanele sibenze bobabili babeke eceleni lezi zindima futhi bazuze ubudlelwane obuhle; noma kunjalo konke kuxhomeke, kumlingiswa wakho ngamunye.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukujwayela ukuba khona kwakho, okuyi-kanuni sizovimbela ukuba babe nokuxhumana okuqondile. Ngale ndlela unogwaja ngeke azizwe esongelwa. Kumele siqaphele ikakhulukazi uma inja ibusa; uma kunjalo, sizomvumela anuke unogwaja kuphela ngekheji lakhe futhi nathi sikhona. Uma sibona ukuthi uziphathe kabi, into enhle kakhulu ongayenza ukumsika ngokushesha ngo "NO" ocijile bese umsusa endaweni, kodwa uma inkinga iqhubeka, kungcono ukubiza umqeqeshi wezinja.
Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, lapho sibona ukuthi inja ikhombisa isimo sokwamukela isilwane esisha, singakwazi thatha unogwaja ezandleni zakho umyeke awunuke. Uma ejabula kakhulu noma ezama ukumbamba, kuzofanele sikuyeke lokhu kuziphatha, size simenze azole. Yilapho-ke singayibeka khona, kepha ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umbono walaba bobabili nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Lapho sibhekene nokuziphatha okungafanele, sizonikeza inja umyalelo oqinile wokuthi ayimise; Futhi singabeka ibhande kuyo bese siyidonsa kancane, siyilawule kalula. Lapho enza kahle, sizomvuza ngamazwi anomusa, ama-caress kanye nokudla.
Ngokulandela le mithetho, kancane kancane sizoqinisekisa ukuthi zombili izilwane ezifuywayo zingabangane abakhulu.