Ukufundisa ngezinga elingokomzwelo: Ingcindezi ebangelwa ngabantu

Namuhla ngizozama ukuqedela lolu chungechunge lwezihloko ezikhuluma ngokucindezeleka ezinjeni. Kuyindaba ebanzi kakhulu futhi ngike ngazama ukuyifingqa ngangokunokwenzeka, ngaphandle kokushiya lutho ngemuva, kunjalo. Ngiyabonga kusuka lapha kubo bonke abantu abangisizile, ngqo nangokungaqondile, ukwenza lolu chungechunge lwezihloko, abantu abanjengoJavi Gonzalez waseCanibus Cognitive Training, uRamón Arredondo oQeqesha Inja, u-Ana Hernandez waseRefugio El Buen Friend, uSilvia Beseran kusuka ku-GEDVA, uSandra Ferrer noma uMarcos Mendoza, abangisizile futhi bangifundisa ngandlela thile, Kufanele ilinganiswe kanjani nokubaluleka Kokuxineka ezilwaneni zethu.

Ukuqeda lesi sihloko, Namuhla ngizokhuluma ngokugxila okuvame kakhulu kwengcindezi kubangani bethu abanemilenze emi-4: e-US. NjengoMfundisi, kufanele ngichazele amaklayenti ami cishe nsuku zonke ukuthi yiwona abhekene nesimo senja. Futhi abaningi bakuthola kunzima ukuyiqonda. Ngalesi sizathu, ngaphandle kweCanine Educator, ngaba ngumqeqeshi womuntu siqu. Kunzima kakhulu ukufundisa inja uma umnikazi wayo engafundile. Ngikushiya nomnyango,Ukufundisa ngezinga elingokomzwelo: Ingcindezi ebangelwa ngabantu.Ukuthola imithombo yengcindezi enjeni yethu kuyinto edingeka kakhulu uma kuziwa ekusebenzeni nezinye izinhlobo zezinto nesinyathelo esibalulekile uma sifuna ukulungisa noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuziphatha kulo. Kokuthunyelwe kwangaphambilini, ku Ukufundisa ngezinga elingokomzwelo: I-Stress VNgikhuluma ngezidingo eziyisisekelo eziyishumi nanye zenja, nokuthi ukungabi bikho kwazo kungasicindezela kanjani isilwane sethu.

Kodwa-ke, namhlanje ngizokhuluma ngesinye sezihloko engizithandayo, engizokhuluma ngaso futhi ngikhulume ngaso, futhi ngeke ngikhathale ukusiphinda, ngoba ngifuna sihlale ekhanda lakho, ngifuna usazi Qiniseka ukuthi uyigcina njalo ubala ... Umthombo oyinhloko wokucindezela inja yakho uqobo lwenu. Kucace bha.

Futhi akumayelana necala, kumayelana nomthwalo nesixazululo. Ukuba necala, ukuzisola, ukuhlambalaza, ukusula emsebenzini, akusisebenzisi ukuphatha isilwane sethu, futhi-ke akuzona izimfanelo zomholi, futhi umholi yilokho okudingayo ukuze ukwazi ukufeza inhloso nenja yakho, lokho izikhathi eziningi, ukukwazi nje ukuhlala ngokuthula naye.

Ngalolu hlobo lwamandla angokomzwelo, ezimweni eziningi sizozikhandla esimeni sokuzitika, lapho sizoqinisekisa khona isimo okufanele silungiswe enjeni yethu ngemishwana efana nale: Ukuthi unjalo, ngukuthi njengomdlwane walunywa yinja, le nja ukuthi uyisilima, hhayi uma engeyona eyakho eyami inolaka, inja yami iyahlanya, njll. .. Lokhu akusisebenzeli lutho ngaphandle kokuxhasa ngokomzwelo izindlela zokuziphatha esingazithandi ngenja yethu, ngasikhathi sinye lapho isisiza ukuzibeka ngokuphelele ngaphandle komthwalo esinakho wokuziphatha namandla. thatha kancane ukuthi asikwazi ukwenza noma yini ukukugwema ngoba unjalo futhi unabo lobo buntu.

Ngale ndlela, sivumela inja ukuthi ibe njengoba injalo futhi sibheka ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukusebenzisa noma yiluphi uhlobo lokulungiswa. Lokhu kusishiya singenakho ukukuxazulula futhi bese kuba yisizathu sokufuna ukwamukelwa lesilwane sethu kanye nokukhubazeka kwaso, isikhathi esiningi kube izindleko zobudlelwano obuhle nenja yethu, okuyi okunikelwe ngokuthethisa, ngentukuthelo, ngodlame ngamazwi noma ngokomzimba, intukuthelo, ukukhungatheka, noma intukutheloa, ukuthi njengoba kungeke kube ngenye indlela, bazophela ngeziqephu zokuzisola, ukuzisola, ukudabuka kanye nokusula emsebenzini, konke lokho ndawonye, ​​okuzokhulisa umuzwa wokuthi asikwazi ukwenza lutho futhi nathi ngeke sikwazi ukwamukela. Okokugcina kuvame ezimweni eziningi, okuyimbangela yezixazululo ezithinta kabi impilo yesilwane. NginguSevillian, futhi ngihlala eSeville, idolobha lase-Europe elishiya izinja eziningi futhi lihlaba izinja eziningi kakhulu. Kuyinto endemic. Kuxhunyaniswe nesiko elidumile elibuhlungu maqondana nezilwane, futhi kwengezwe enkingeni, kwezomnotho nakwezenhlalo, ethinta abahlupheka kakhulu emhlabeni wethu ...izilwane.

Kufingqa lokhu okuthunyelwe kancane, ukuphathwa ngokomzwelo okubi kakhulu ngakithiKusuka ezimeni ezingalungiswa kalula ngemfundo ethile yenja nomnikazi, ziphenduka amadrama amakhulu nezimo ezingakhululeki neze. Cabanga futhi uzindle ngamazwi ami.

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