Ngabe ucabanga ukwamukela umfana onoboya? Leso yisinqumo okungafanele sithathwe kalula, ngoba sikhuluma ngokuthatha ekhaya isilwane esingahlala isilinganiso seminyaka engama-20, nokuthi phakathi naso sonke leso sikhathi sizodinga umndeni omuhle ukusinakekela njengoba sinjalo. kufanele. Uma kwenzeka usucabangisisile ngalokhu, khona-ke ngingakuhalalisela kuphela, ngoba impilo yakho neyekhaya lakho zizoshintsha kakhulu - kube ngcono- kusukela ngomzuzu wokuqala lapho isilwane sifika ekhaya.
Noma kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi uneminyaka emingaki yokwamukela umdlwane, ngoba uma kwenziwa ngokushesha, izinkinga zokuziphatha kanye / noma zempilo zingavela esikhathini esifushane noma esiphakathi. Sazise-ke ukuthi ubomvu kufanele bube mdala kangakanani ukuze buhlukaniswe nonina kanye / noma izingane zakwabo.
Umdlwane, kusukela ekuzalweni kuye ezinyangeni ezimbili, kufanele uhlale nomndeni wawo ophilayo. Umama uphethe ukumdlisa ubisi lwakhe okungenani inyanga nohhafu, kepha futhi uyena omfundisa ukuziphatha njengenja; Ngamanye amagama, ngomdlalo uzobe ubeka imingcele ongeke wayidlula. Le mikhawulo, ebekwe ngokuhayiza okuthambile kwesinye isikhathi, nokuma phakathi kwezelamani zayo ukuvimbela ukugembula ukuthi kube yinkinga kwezinye izikhathi, kuzosiza ubomvu ukuqala ukulawula amandla okulunywa nokuziphatha kahle.
Kepha-ke, umndeni wakho wesintu kufanele unake ukuthi kusukela ezinyangeni ezimbili kuya kwezintathu ubudala inja idlula esikhathini sokuhlangana, lapho kufanele ijwayele ukuba khona kwezinye izinja, amakati, abantu futhi ivezwe ngomsindo. zezimoto nalezo zasekhaya. Ngokwalesi sizathu, iminyaka enhle yokuthola umdlwane izinyanga ezi-2, Okuzoba uma eselunyuliwe futhi ukulungele funda izinto eziningi ezintsha. 🙂