Njengoba sihlala sibona lapho siphuma ngaphandle, iningi labantu awunakho ukulawula okuhle kwenja yakho, futhi kunezici eziningi ezinomthelela kulokhu, ngokuswela ulwazi kwethuluzi eliyibhanti, lousy isiko elidumile kuthiwani ngezinja (kulezi zinsuku kakhulu kakhulu ngenxa yomphumela wokwaziswa okungelona iqiniso onalo i-intanethi emphakathini) noma isidingo sethu sokuphatha inja ngokujwayelekile, ukukhombisa uthando lwethu kuye, ukumenza umngani wethu, indodana, okungukuthi, ukumphatha njengomuntu. Futhi lokho akunampilo kuye.
Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi inja yethu ingomunye womndeni, kuyiqiniso futhi ukuthi le yindlela esiyibona ngayo, nokuthi leli phuzu aliyona into abayidingayo noma abayifunayo. Akadingi Master, a Boss, ubaba noma umama noma umngane. Udinga umholi. Namuhla sizokuchazela, Ungaba kanjani umholi wenja yakho ngezinyathelo ezi-4 ezilula.
Okokuqala, ngiyanxusa ukuba ufunde indatshana yami edlule, Ukuxhumana kanye nobudlelwano phakathi kwendoda nenja, noma Ulimi lwezinja, ukuze uqonde kangcono kangcono indlela baxhumana nabanye abantu, kungaba yizinja, amakati noma abantu.
Hay Izinto ezine okufanele uzicabangele lapho uhola inja yakho:
- Lawula imizwa- Umholi ngokwencazelo othile uzolile futhi uqoqiwe. Umholi akamemezi, akanalo ulaka , yenza isibonelo, ukuxhumana futhi kwenza ukuxhumana nabanye abantu, umholi dlala futhi uhole umdlalo (Nginalo ibhola futhi uyiletha kimi, ngigijima ngebhayisikili bese uyangilandela), futhi ekugcineni umholi uyakwazi ukuqina nokuguquguquka ngasikhathi sinye. Tshala imali noma uthuthukise imizwa yanoma yiluphi uhlobo, noma ngabe banodlame noma banothando kumane kukwenze ubukeke ubuthakathaka emehlweni enja yakho, futhi ababuthakathaka abaholi.
- Njengoba sihamba phezu kwalo- Kungenye yezinto ezibalulekile uma kuziwa ekubeni abaholi bezinja. Ukufaka imali ukungezwani okukhulu kakhulu ku-strap, qala ukulwa kokuthi ngubani odonsa okuningi nenja, kuholela kuphela ekuqaliseni i-loop evame ukusisa kufayela le- isimo sokukhathazeka nokulahlekelwa ukulawula isimo, esenza sihambe manje kusuka kusinyathelo 1. Kufanele sifunde ukuhamba nenja yethu buthule, zombili zikhululekile futhi ziboshwe, ngasohlangothini lwethu, futhi sikwazi ukulawula isimo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Okwakho, kufanele uyiqeqeshe inja, ikakhulukazi ezintweni eziyisisekelo njengale, noma kungenjalo asisoze safeza inhloso yokuba ngabaholi bezilwane zethu. Ibhande kufanele libe yi ithuluzi lokuxhumana nelokuhlangana nesilwane sethu, hhayi umshwalense noma ithuluzi lokuqukethwe.
- Ukuvivinya umzimba nokudlala: Kubaluleke kakhulu inja mayimoshe amandla ayo, nokuthi ubambe iqhaza kulezo zindleko zamandla, ukuze izoguqulela ekudlaleni, futhi hhayi entweni engemihle njengenja yethu esibalekelayo noma eyeka ukusinaka ungatshali isikhathi esithile ekuzijabuliseni kwakho. Ubudlelwano nenja yethu kufanele kube mnandi, ukuze ube nempilo. Kufanele udlale naye, ikakhulukazi kumageyimu asivumelayo yiba protagonist. Ibhayisikili, izikeyiti, ukuyogijima naye, yimisebenzi emihle yomzimba ngaphandle kokubopha izinja zethu bazosenza sibe abaholi abaningi phambi kwamehlo abo.
- Isimo sengqondo ekhaya: Izinja kumele zibe nochungechunge lwezikhala ezimakwe ekhaya kanye nochungechunge lwezimo ezivumela ukuthi bazi ukuthi wena, njengomholi, uzibekela isikhala. Lokho kubalulekile. Ngalokhu kubalulekile ukususa amasiko afana nalawo gibela kusofa, gibela embhedeni wethu (lokhu akuvumelekile), babe nokudla ekhishini, makubuse izicabha noma amawindi endlu (Ngilele lapha angisuki uma udlula noma ngikugquma noma ngikukhonkotha njengoba ngidlula), ungasho ukuthi Sawubona noma usale kahle, noma umvumele njalo angene phambi kwakho ngomnyango wendlu. Konke lokhu, ngokukuqeda, inja yakho izoqala ukukuqonda lokho ungumholi wepakethe yakho, okungokwakhe.
Ngiyabonga !! Ngiyethemba ngiziveze kahle nokuthi kusiza wonke umuntu onenja! Siyabonga ngokuphawula !!! Ukubingelela!!!
Sawubona. Nginezinja ezimbili ezincane, endala kunazo zonke, eneminyaka engu-5 ubudala, isiphambano esingu-XNUMX k, eqoqwe endaweni yokukhosela isencane kakhulu kangangokuba ibingenamazinyo futhi kufanele idliswe ngebhodlela. Ukufika kwakhe kuqondane nokwanda kwesifo se-pardovirus kanti udokotela wezilwane akazange amvumele ukuba ahambe emgwaqweni aze abe nezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala futhi isikhathi sokuzijabulisa asidlulanga. Ukusuka lapho: ukukhonkotha zonke izinja ezisemgwaqweni. Sizamile ukumjwayela kuma-hangout ezinja kodwa uyathukuthela aze abonakale ecwila. Ukwesaba okumsulwa. Kodwa-ke, lapho egibela ibhayisikili lakhe uziphatha ngokwaphezulu futhi angiphuthelwa ithuba lokwenza njalo. Kodwa ukuhamba….
Omunye ubelokhu eneminyaka emithathu lapha, i-yorki, esashiywa njengomdlwane esizeni lapho asinda khona ngezinyoni futhi ngubani owaziyo okunye. Ngokusobala wachitha amasonto ambalwa lapho, wathathwa ngumfana onakekela amakati endawo wamyisa ehhovisi likadokotela wezilwane. Lapho akazange adle noma aphuze izinsuku ezimbili futhi waluma ababheki kwaze kwaba seqophelweni lokuthi angathembi muntu ukuthi uzomthinta. Lapho ngiyithatha, yaqala yanyakaza kodwa yangangiluma futhi ngemuva kwemizuzu emibili, yafihla ikhanda layo endololwaneni. Ngiyithathile. Unenkinga "encane" yokuchama ekhaya. Njalo endaweni efanayo. Ekuqaleni besicabanga ukuthi ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana. Kwaba kubi. Akusenjalo. Lapho sifika ekhaya, asibanaki baze bathule isikhashana. Sazama ukuyikhipha kuze kube izikhathi eziyishumi ngosuku. Lutho. Hlola amahora, bese uwakhipha ngaphambili futhi ukwenze lapho ufika. Ubonakala njengenja yekhehla engenasimilo futhi angikwazi ukuphuma kulo mkhuba. Kwesinye isikhathi bayalwa. Okwamathoyizi, futhi sibafundise ukudlala ngalinye ngelabo. Babelana nge-feeder ngaphandle kwezinkinga futhi balinde ngesineke ukuthi omunye wabo adle omunye. Bahlanganyela umthombo wokuphuza nekati futhi abavamile ukubhekana. Ngaphambi kokuthi kube namanye amakati amabili futhi angibanga nezinkinga. Manje kungenzeka ukuthi inja entsha, i-chihuahua, izongena uma ingatholi ikhaya. Ngizoba nenkinga yokumfundisa ukuthi ANGEKE achame ekhaya ngephunga lomunye? Ngingakhonkotha njengezinhlanya kwezinye izinja njengezindala? Ngikhathazekile. Noma yisiphi iseluleko?