I-Los imidlwane Amabhola athandekayo anoboya okusenza simomotheke ngayo yonke inhlekelele abayenzayo. Kepha kunokuziphatha okungeke kwamukelwe, futhi lokho ukulunywa. Ngenkathi besebancane kungenzeka bangasilimazi kakhulu; Noma kunjalo, kufanele ucabange ukuthi ezinyangeni ezimbalwa bazoba ngabantu abadala, bese beba namandla athe xaxa emazinyweni abo.
Ngakho-ke, ukukugwema, kufanele uqale ukuqeqesha kusukela osukwini lokuqala. Thola ungawuvimbela kanjani umdlwane ekulumeni.
Imidlwane inobuchopho obucishe bufane nesipanji, okungukuthi, bumunca yonke into futhi ngokushesha okukhulu. Kungakho ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuthi inja ifunde indlela yokuziphatha. Futhi ungaqala (empeleni, kufanele uqale) kusenesikhathi: ngokushesha nje lapho ufika ekhaya ngosuku lokuqala.
Ungayivimba kanjani injana yami ekulumeni?
Lapho sizoqeqesha inja, noma ngabe indala kangakanani, kubalulekile yiba nesineke futhi uhlale njalo. Wonke umuntu unejubane lakhe lokufunda, elingahamba kancane noma lisheshe, into okungafanele ithathwe njengebalulekile. Ukuze umdlwane ufunde ukungalumi, okufanele kwenziwe yilokhu okulandelayo:
- Njalo lapho ubona ukuthi uzokuluma noma okuthile ongakufuni (ngokwesibonelo, izicathulo, amakhushini, noma yini), mtshele ukuthi Cha uqine kepha ngaphandle kokumemeza kahle ngaphambi kokuthi ngenze.
- Ngemuva kwalokho mnike ithoyizi akwazi ukuhlafuna, njengebhola noma i-teether.
Phinda izikhathi eziningi njengoba ubona ukuthi isilwane sihlose ukuluma okuthile okungafanele.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzobona ukuthi inja iyeka kanjani ukukwenza 😉. Kuyindaba yokubekezela kuphela, ukubekezela nokuhlonipha inja.