Yize inja ngayinye ihlukile, kunabantu abakhetha ukuba nabesifazane kuphela noma abesilisa kuphela. Kepha Yini okufanele uyikhethe lapho uzokwamukela noma uyithole? Ngabe kuyiqiniso ukuthi abesifazane bavame ukuba nothando kakhulu futhi abesilisa bazimele ngokwengeziwe?
Sixazulula lokhu nokunye ukungabaza okujwayelekile ukwenza kube lula kuwe ukuthi unqume kokunye noma kokunye.
Injani inja yesilisa?
Izinja zesilisa ngokomzimba zivame ukuba zincane kancane kunezesifazane. Uma sigxila kubuntu bakhe, imvamisa kususelwa kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, bavame ukuzimela kancane kepha badlale kakhulu, kuze kube seqophelweni lokuthi kungashiwo ukuthi bayintsha yaphakade, ngoba nabo bathambekele ekungalaleli ngandlela thile.
Yebo, zikhetheke kakhulu futhi zithandana kakhulu, kepha uma ukhetha eyodwa, unganqikazi ukuyithatha ukuze ithengelwe ezinyangeni eziyi-6-8 (kuya ngokuthi incane noma inkulu) ukuyivimba ukuthi ingamaki umchamo nezinto zokufaka, abantu ... noma izinja. Uma zingathathi hlangothi, zinomkhuba omkhulu wokwehlisa umoya, into ozojabula ukuyazi 🙂.
Unjani unondindwa?
Unondindwa uvame ukuthanda kakhuluNgingaze ngibe nesibindi sokusho uncike kakhulu yomndeni wakhe wabantu. Bafundiswe kalula ngandlela thize, futhi bajwayele ukukhonza izingane. Kepha kunconywa kakhulu ukumthena ezinyangeni eziyi-6-8, ukugwema ukungcola okungafuneki nokuba nomlingiswa ozolile.
Namanje futhi namanje noma iyiphi inja, owesilisa noma owesifazane, ngokushesha angaba umngane wakho omkhulu. Kumele unikeze ukunakekelwa okudingekayo (amanzi, ukudla, ukuhamba nsuku zonke) futhi umphathe ngenhlonipho kusukela ngosuku lokuqala efika ekhaya lakho nasempilweni yakho.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngikwazile ukukusiza, okungenani okuncane, ekukhetheni eyodwa noma enye.