Imindeni eminingi ayazi noma kufanele yamukele noma ithenge inja ngenxa yobandlululo olungapheli, ingcindezi noma izincomo ezizizwile. Ukuthola ilungu elisha lomndeni akufanele kube yisinqumo esingajahi, kodwa okuthile okwakucatshangelwa phambilini, ekugcineni masikuthathe noma sikuthenge.
Kulesi sihloko ngeke singene enkulumweni-mpikiswano yalokho okuziphatha okuhle noma okuncomekayoSizochaza zombili izinketho ngendlela enenhloso enkulu, ukufakwa kuhlu ngasikhathi sinye yiziphi izinzuzo nobubi benketho ngayinye, ukuze kuthi lapho ukhetha, ukwenze ngombandela nolwazi lwembangela. Isinqumo sokugcina, njengakho konke okunye, kufanele senziwe ngumndeni wonke.
Yiziphi izinzuzo nobubi bokuthola inja?
Lapho sikhetha ukukhetha ukwamukela, sinikeza inja isipho esihle kunazo zonke: ithuba lesibili lokuhlala emndenini omusha futhi sijabule. Izinja esingazithola ezindaweni zokukhosela, kungenzeka ukuthi zilahliwe noma zaphathwa kabi, nokuthi indawo lapho elinde ukwamukelwa khona mhlawumbe akuyona indawo yokuhlala ekahle kunazo zonke, noma lapho athola khona uthando.
Ukwamukela isilwane ngokungangabazeki isenzo sobumbano esizoklonyeliswa kabili: izinja ezitholwe zithembekile kakhulu futhi zibonga abanikazi bazo abasha.
Inzuzo enkulu yokwamukela inja isimiloNjengoba leyo nja oyinike ikhaya elisha, uzobe usindise impilo yakhe ngokumnika impilo ehloniphekile, ngombhede ofudumele, ukudla namanzi, nothando oluningi.
Okubi ukuthi lezi zinja zivame ukuba nazo ukuthi zivame Yizinja ebezingezabanye babanikazi, noma izinja ezingaseyona imidlwane, okusho ukuthi kungenzeka babe nemikhuba emibi noma isimilo abasitholile esikhathini esedlule. Ngokubekezela okuncane nesikhathi, uzokwazi ukulungisa inja iye ekhaya layo elisha. Izinja zokutholwa zivame ukuhlakanipha kakhulu, zizofunda ngokushesha, uma kungenjalo, thintana nochwepheshe ukuze akusize uzifundise.
Enye into okufanele siyikhumbule ukuthi ukuphathwa kabi okungenzeka wakwazi ukukuhlupha esikhathini esedlule kwakungashiya uphawu olungacimeki emphefumulweni wakhe.
Kungase kukuthande: Imiphumela yengqondo yokuphathwa kabi kwezinja
Ukwamukela inja kusho ukonga esinye sezigidi ezingena ezindlini zokukhosela noma zokukhosela unyaka nonyaka.
Yiziphi izinzuzo nobubi bokuthenga inja?
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi akuyona inketho enhle. Noma kunjalo, Ukuthenga inja akudingeki kube yinto embi uma silandele uchungechunge lwemihlahlandlela eqinisekisa ukuthi asibambiqhaza ebhizinisini elingalihloniphi izinga lempilo yezilwaneNjengamafemu amakhulu okuzalanisa, lapho azalelwa khona emakhejini amancane futhi angcolile futhi aphathwa sengathi ayimikhiqizo nje ethengiswayo. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kugcizelelwe ukuthi, ngenhlanhla, akubona bonke abafuyi abanje. Abantu abaningi bayazithanda izilwane zabo futhi baziphatha kahle kakhulu.
Kuyahlonishwa lokho imindeni eminingi ifuna uhlobo oluthile, futhi ikwazi ukuyifaka emndenini kusuka kumdlwane ukuze ikwazi ukuyifundisa ngendlela yayo. Lezi, ngaphandle kokungabaza, izinzuzo ezimbili ezicacile zokuthenga inja.
Asikukhuthazi ukuthengwa ezitolo, ngoba bavame ukuba ngabalamuli bamapulazi amakhulu lapho abesifazane bephoqeleka ukuthi bazale njalo uma bengena ekushiseni ukuze babaxhaphaze kakhulu ngokwezomnotho. Kepha Sincoma ukuthi uthenge ezindlini ezihloniphekile nezisobala, lapho ungahlangana khona nomama bemidlwane ozoyikhokhela. Yenza ucwaningo olunzulu ukuthola ukuthi ngubani ozala izinja ngandlela thile endaweni yangakini, futhi uzazise naye ngakho konke odinga ukukwazi: yazi umama, umdlwane, inzalo, ukugoma nokunye ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha leso silwane kudinga.
Ngale ndlela, ububi obukhulu bokuthenga inja ukuthi imvamisa kufanele sikhokhe inani eliphakeme ukuthola lowo mdlwane ozalisayo esiwuthanda kakhulu.