El Iphephandaba iDaily Mail lisandula ukupapashwa isifundo esinomdla esivela kwiDyunivesithi yaseSt Andrews eScotland, ekuthi ngayo ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya kungasivuselela ukufikelela kwiminyaka elishumi. Ngokucacileyo, lo ngumxholo ophambili, nangona kufuneka ufunde ushicilelo oluhle, kuba bathetha ngentla apha malunga nezibonelelo ezizisa abantu abadala, kuba abo banezinja zihlala bengabo abenza imisebenzi yomzimba.
Abo kuthi banesilwanyana sasekhaya bayazi ukuba ubomi bethu ngekhe bufane ngaphandle kwaso. Basizisela izibonelelo ezininzi, nangona ngamanye amaxesha basinika umsebenzi omncinci, owenza nantoni na. Siyonwaba kunye nabo, sihamba, basigcina sinenkampani, bayasiqonda kwaye abasokuze basishiye, nkqu nakwiiyure eziphantsi, ngenxa yoko bayinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bethu.
Ngokwolu phando, izilwanyana zenza abantu ube nomsebenzi omninzi womzimba, ezisa izibonelelo ezinkulu kwimpilo yabo, ngakumbi ukuba sithetha ngabantu abadala. Kuyangqinwa ukuba abantu abadala abanezilwanyana zasekhaya aziphelelanga nje emzimbeni, kodwa banomsebenzi ongaphezulu kwengqondo ngenxa yoxanduva lokukhathalela isilwanyana sabo.
Sonke siyazi ukuba izilwanyana zingabakho inkampani enkulu nangaliphi na ixesha. Ukusuka ebantwaneni, abafunda ukuba noxanduva kwaye babe neqabane elithembekileyo, kubantu abadala, abafumana inkampani engaphumeleliyo, kunye nesizathu sokuvuka esofeni yonke imihla.
Los iinzuzo zengqondo Baye bafundwa, kodwa akuyomfuneko ukwenza izifundo ukwazi ukuba phantse bonke abanini bayathetha nezilwanyana zasekhaya kwaye bafumane inkxaso kuzo. Behlisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo lwethu, ububi obungunobangela weengxaki ezininzi zempilo namhlanje. Ke ukuba awukacingi ukuba nenja, sele unezizathu ezininzi zokuyifumana.