Imfuyo yasekhaya ngoogxa bethuEzi zezona zisinika inkxaso kunye nobuhlobo esibufunayo ebomini bethu. Jonga abantu obathandayo xa behlangabezana namava uhlobo oluthile lwengxaki yezonyango Kunzima kakhulu kwaye kukuba ukungakwazi ukuphelisa eli lizwe kwisilwanyana sakho kuya kukwenza uzive umbi.
Kuyafana nokubanjwa kwaye kunjalo xa inja yakho ixhuzula, kukho imfuneko yokubonelela ngesiqabu esikhulu ukuze ukwazi ukukugqiba oku. Yiyo yonke into onokuyenza, kuba kwelinye icala, kufuneka ubenakho ulwazi olwaneleyo malunga nenkqubo kunye oonobangela bokuxhuzula kwaye kukho iimeko apho inja yakho inokuziphatha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ezingalindelwanga.
Ukuhlutha izinja
Ngala mathuba kufuneka wazi oonobangela kunye neendlela onokuthi ubancede ngazo. Oku kulandelayo zezi izinto eziphambili ekufuneka uzenzile xa inja yakho ixhuzula:
Zolile. Kwaye imeko yesilwanyana sakho ayizukuphucuka ukuba uyoyika. Ungabanceda kuphela xa ukulungele ukwenza njalo.
Kufuneka ube ilungiselelwe ngokwengqondo, ke into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukuzola. Kwimeko yokothuka ngekhe ukwazi ukucinga ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ngenxa yoko, iya kuyenza mandundu imeko yenja yakho. Ukuba ufuna ukugcina isilwanyana sakho sikhuselekile, hlala ujonge.
Indawo engenanto. Into elandelayo ekufuneka uyenzile emva kokuthomalalisa coca indawo ejikeleze inja yakho Kwaye kukuba njengoko imiqondiso neempawu zibonisa, izinja ezixhuzulayo Banokuhamba ngokukhawuleza ngokungazibandakanyi, beqinisekisa ukuba inja yakho ikhuselekile.
Coca indawo emngqongileyo kwaye umgcine ekhuselekile ngexesha lokuthimba.
Zama ukugcina umgama okhuselekileyo. Akukho mntu unokubona umntu omthandayo ekwimeko enzima, ke nawe ngekhe, ke kukho amaxesha apho ufuna ukunceda inja yakho ngelo xesha, kodwa kufuneka ugcine umgama okhuselekileyo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sukubeka izandla emlonyeni wesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya, njengoko oku kuyakuba yingozi kuwe.
Yenza okusingqongileyo kube lula. Cima isibane kwaye uvale amakhethini, zama ukwenza imeko engcono. Yintoni egqithisile, cima umabonwakude ukunqanda ingxolo engaphezulu. Gcina ilizwi elizolileyo kwaye ugcine abantwana bekude nendawo.
Cinga ngexesha lokuhlaselwa. Le iya kuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyenzile ngalo mzuzu kwaye lelo lixesha lenja yakho Ukuxhuzula kubalulekile ukubonelela ngomfanekiso ofanelekileyo kugqirha wezilwanyana.
Ezinye iintlobo zokubanjwa ingahlala imizuzu embalwa kwaye ezinye zinokongezwa kwaye yile nto ubude bexesha iya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo ekuchongeni uhlobo lokuhlutha inja yakho. Ukongeza, kuya kunceda ukuqikelela ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha onokuyilindela kwinja yakho kuloo meko.
Rekhoda ividiyo. Nanini na xa ucinga ukuba inja yakho isebenza ngokungaqhelekanga, thatha ikhamera yakho kwaye bhala phantsi inkqubo. Ke xa undwendwela ugqirha wezilwanyana, ividiyo yokubanjwa iya kukunika umbono ongcono wengxaki kwaye ukuxilongwa okufanelekileyo kuya kukhokelela kunyango olufanelekileyo.
Yiba nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. Xa inja yakho ixhuzula, ifuna ingqalelo yakho kunye nenkxaso.
Banike i inkathalelo Inokubanceda ngokwenene ukuba baphucule kwaye ingcinga yokuba kukho umntu oza kukunceda kwimeko enzima iya konyusa amandla okulwa. Emva kokuphela kokuthathwa, inja yakho inokuba nezinto ezifana nobumfama bethutyana kunye nokulahleka kwengqondo, de afune uncedo lwakho ukoyisa umothuko.
Qinisekisa ukuba abangeni kwiindawo eziyingozi njengophahla okanye izinyuko.
Gcina iirekhodi zokuthimba. Gcina iphepha okanye ifolda equka imihla ethile yokubanjwa kwenja yakho, khumbula Rekhoda ubude bexesha, indlela yokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuqala kokuhlutha kunye nayo nayiphi na imiqondiso ebalulekileyo oyibonileyo