Izinja, kunye neekati, zezona zilwanyana zithandwayo. Kwimeko yezinja, ukuhlala nenye sisizathu esifanelekileyo sokuhamba yonke imihla kunye nomhlobo onoboya kwaye uchithe ixesha elininzi elimnandi ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwendlu.
Ukuba ucinga ukwamkela enye, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nomdla wokwazi ziziphi izibonelelo zokuba nenja, yinyaniso? Kulungile ezi. 🙂
Kwinqanaba leemvakalelo
Ngubani onenja akaze abe yedwa; Uhlala enomntu oza kumphulaphula kwaye enze konke okusemandleni ukumenza ancume, kwaye oko kunokwanela ukugcina ukudakumba kunye nosizi kude nawe, kuba ukuhlala nomntu onoboya kuthetha ukuthatha uxanduva. kunokukwenza uzive uluncedo.
Kwaye loo nto ayithethi ukuba abantwana abahlala nezinja kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba bakhule behlonipha izilwanyana.
Kwinqanaba lomzimba
Inja ukuze yonwabe, inja kufuneka ithathe uhambo ukuhamba yonke imihla, usapho ludlale ngayo kwaye, ekugqibeleni, lwenzelwe ukuzilolonga. Oku "kunyanzela" abo babakhathaleleyo ukuba bahambe, kufuneka bayishiye indlu, ukuze, ngaphandle kokuyiqonda, umhlobo wakho omtsha iya kukunceda ukhokele indlela yokuphila engcono kwaye ufumane impilo, ngaloo ndlela kulibaziseka ukwaluphala.
Kwinqanaba lengqondo
Kuyaziwa ukuba inja iyathandana, kodwa ndingongeza ukuba »inceda abantu ukuba babe nobuhlobo». Nditsho nentombazana eneentloni ingathetha ngomhlobo wayo onemilenze emine. Kufuneka uthande nje. Yenza inyathelo lokuqala.
Kwelinye icala kwaye njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, ukuze isilwanyana sive kamnandi kufuneka siyinyamekele, kunye nenyani elula yokwenza izakukugcina wonwabile.
Kuzo zonke ezi zizathu, nakwabanye oya kuthi uyazi ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuhlala nenja, sicebisa ukuba nenja kusapho 🙂.