Izilwanyana zasekhaya ubukhulu becala zisizisela uvuyo kwaye basenza sithandane nabo.
Nangona kunjalo, izilwanyana zethu esizithandayo azizisi ulonwabo kuphela, kodwa nazo zilungele impilo entlenjengoko kubonisiwe ukuba izilwanyana zasekhaya zilungele ukuthintela ukwaliwa, unakekele amathambo, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokuhlaselwa yintliziyo kunye nokunceda izihlunu kunye nemisipha yethu.
Olona lwalamano lubalulekileyo phakathi kwezinja kunye nokuhlaselwa sisifo sentliziyo kusekwe kuxinzelelo, ukusukela oko el uxinzelelo ngoyena nobangela uphambili wabantu abanesifo sentliziyo. Izinja ziyakwazi ukukwenza ukuba ukhulule uxinzelelo kunye neekhemikhali kwingqondo ezikwenza uphumle, oko ke kunciphisa umngcipheko wexinzelelo lwegazi kunye neengxaki zentliziyo.
Ubungqina obuncinci besayensi buyafuneka bokuba njani izinja zichaphazela impilo entle yabantu Abangqongwe ngabo bonke ubomi babo. Kwaye oku kungenxa yento esele siyikhankanyile ngasentla: ukuba ezi zilwanyana zibuchaphazela njani ubomi beemvakalelo zomntu.
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Thintela isifo sentliziyo
Zininzi izifundo ezenziweyo, ekugqitywe kuzo ukuba Kukho ubudlelwane phakathi kwezilwanyana zasekhaya kunye nokunciphisa umngcipheko wezifo yentliziyo Kungenxa yokuba izilwanyana zasekhaya zinciphisa umngcipheko obangela isifo sentliziyo, enye yazo ikakhulu luxinzelelo.
Ukongeza, abantu abaninzi bathi kuba banezilwanyana zasekhaya baqala ukwenza imisebenzi ebonakalayo, enjengokubaleka okanye ukuhamba, xa behamba nezilwanyana zabo, ke unokuqiniseka ngokupheleleyo ukuba umngcipheko wesifo sentliziyo uyancitshiswa ukusa kumlinganiselo omkhulu.
Ukunciphisa iimpawu zokungabikho komzimba
ESweden, kwenziwa isifundo apho kwenziwa umahluko phakathi kwabantwana ababenezinja ngexesha lobuntwana babo kunye nabo banxibelelana nezilwanyana zasekhaya ebusheni.
Izifundo zibonise ukuba izinja zokwaliwa komzimba zancitshiswa kwabo babenezilwanyana zasekhaya kangangeminyaka emi-5-7 ubudala xa kuthelekiswa nalabo babenezilwanyana zasekhaya ekukhuleni, ngelixa izehlo zabantwana abanesifo sokwaliwa zizinja zazisezantsi kwabo bantwana babenxibelelana nabo beselusana.
Ukuzinzisa uxinzelelo lwegazi
Abantu abanengxaki yoxinzelelo lwegazi okanye abo bakhe banengxaki yoxinzelelo lwegazi, banexinzelelo njengoyena nobangela. Uninzi lwaba bantu lunobomi beengxaki, kwaye bahlala bephantsi koxinzelelo.
Olunye uphononongo lubonise oko abantu abanezinja bazinciphisile iingxaki zabo ngoxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu kunye nabanye ngokulula khange baphathwe ziimpawu ixesha elide.
Ilungele ingqondo nomphefumlo
Izilwanyana ziyanyanga ngokupheleleyo, kodwa nazo Uncedo kwinxalenye yokomoya nakwiimvakalelo. Kungenxa yokuba izilwanyana zasekhaya, endaweni yazo akukho nto, zisinika uthando kunye nolonwabo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya kukwenza uzive ubuthathaka, kwaye ufumane amanye amaxesha wokuncuma, ukusukela oko inja ilungele abantu abadandathekileyo okanye kwabo banoxinzelelo imini yonke.
Ukufuya isilwanyana sakho emva kosuku olunzima emsebenzini yeyona nto ilungileyo unyango lokomoya Kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ukuba nenja kukwabandakanya nokhathalelo oluthile, kuba njengathi, baneemfuno ekufuneka bezinyamekele. Khathalela impilo, ukutya kunye nokhuseleko lwesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya kwaye ekugqibeleni uyakusibuyisela kuwe ngothando olungenamiqathango nolungenabugovu.
Kucacile ukuba ukuba nenja iluncedo kakhulu kwimpilo yethu.