Hlala phantsi! Ngaphantsi! Phakama! Ndinike inqina! Kwaye nangona ufundisa inja yakho le miyalelo yahlukeneyo ayisiyonto ilula ehlabathini, inja yakho kwaye uza kufumana izibonelelo ezininzi, kuba ukuqeqesha isilwanyana sakho kuya komeleza ubudlelwane bazo zombini ngeendlela ezininzi.
Kule nqaku, siza kukunika izizathu ezintle qalisa ukufundisa nokuqeqesha inja yakho ukusukela namhlanje.
Izizathu ezi-7 ezilungileyo zokuqeqesha inja yakho
Ngumbuzo wokhuseleko
Xa ufundisa inja yakho ukuthobela imiyalelo eyahlukeneyo, ufunda iindlela ezibalulekileyo zokuyilawula. Kuyanceda ukukwazi ukuxelela inja yakho ukuba ihlale phantsi okanye ithule, kodwa inokugcina ubomi bayo xa uwela isitalato kwaye ugcine uxolo lomntu wonke xa ungena kwishishini.
Omnye isilwanyana esizolileyo kunye nokudibana nomniniyo, sisilwanyana esikhuselekileyo kubo bonke abantu abasingqongileyo.
Igcina inja yakho ixakekile
Akuthathi xesha lide ukuba inja idikwe kwaye ewe, ingqalelo yakho isikelwe umda Kwaye akuthathi xesha lide ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuhlafuna kuyo nayiphi na into onokufikelela kuyo, umzekelo, isofa yakho entsha okanye ityali entsha efakiweyo.
Qeqesha inja yakho kwaye ukumfundisa amaqhinga kuya kumgcina egxile Kumsebenzi othile kwaye uya kumonwabisa ngeeyure.
Ukuqeqesha isilwanyana sakho kukwakho noqeqesho lobuchopho kuwe
Ukuqeqesha inja yakho kuya kugcina ingqondo yabo ibukhali kwaye isebenze, njengoko bekhula, izinja ziyancipha emzimbeniKodwa amaqhinga okufunda aya kugcina iingqondo zabo ziphaphile kwaye zamkele. Kananjalo iya kuninceda ukuba nihlale nijolise, ukuba yimithambo yengqondo kuni nobabini.
Yenza ubudlelwane obomeleleyo phakathi kwakho nomhlobo wakho othembekileyo
Ukuqeqesha inja yakho komeleza ulwalamano lwakho nayo. Isilwanyana sasekhaya siya kujonga njengenkokeli yepakethi, uya kukumamela kwaye angazami ukutsala umdla wakho ngendlela eyonakalisayo. Kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, xa inja yakho ifunda izinto, nobabini nibe liqela, nibe lelona lifanelekileyo.
Uya kuchukumisa abo ubathandayo
Ukuba ufundisa inja yakho amaqhinga amnandi, ungayibonisa kubahlobo bakho kunye nosapho, yeyiphi iyakwenza isilwanyana sakho sizive sithandekile ngokutsala umdla yabo bonke.
Izinja ziyayithanda ingqwalaselo eziyinikiweyo, ewe, zihlala zinokubekwa kubuntu benja, kuba ezinye zinobuhlobo kunabanye. Kodwa ukuba liziko lokuqwalaselwa xa besenza amaqhinga abo kuhlala kumangalisa isilwanyana sakho, ke ngoko uya kufumana ukuvuyisana ngokuba ngumqeqeshi obalaseleyo.
Ukutyelela kugqirha wezilwanyana kuya kuba lula.
Xa ukuthembana phakathi kwakho nesilwanyana sasekhaya kudityanisiwe, ukuququzelela ukuqeshwa kwezilwanyana kwaye uyakuyithintela inja yakho ekubeni ingalawuleki ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka umndwendwele, ukuvumela ugqirha wezilwanyana ukuba enze uhlolo ngokuchanekileyo. Ngaphandle koko, ukubonisana kunokuba buhlungu kuwe nakugqirha wezilwanyana.
Ukuba ufundisa inja yakho ukuba ihlale izolile ngelixa ugqirha wezilwanyana emvavanya, iya kwenza ubomi bube lula kuye wonke umntu ngokubanzi Kwaye awuyi kuba nazintloni ngokuziphatha kwenja yakho.
Uya kuyinika inja yakho into oyithandayo
Sonke sinezinto esizithandayo, nokuba kukubukela iTV, ukufunda, ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi okanye nantoni na, ke kuya kufuneka uyazi loo nto izinja zifuna izinto zokwenza nazo, isilwanyana esikruqulayo sisilwanyana esitshabalalisayo kwaye ukuqeqesha inja yakho kunokuba yinto eyonwabisa kakhulu kwiintsuku ezinethayo xa ungakwazi ukumkhupha uhambe.
Ubusika abuyi kubakruqula nobabini kunye neentsuku zehlobo ziya kuba mnandi, ngaphandle koko, ukuqeqesha isilwanyana sakho kuya kukunceda ube yinkokheli yepakethi, into eyimfuneko ukuba inja yakho ikulandele kwaye inikele ingqalelo kuyo yonke into.