Xa uthatha isigqibo sokuhlala nenja, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba kuyakufuneka uhambe uhambo yonke imihla ukusuka ebuntwaneni; ukuba awukhange wenze njalo, ubuya kukhathazeka kwaye mhlawumbi ungaziphathi ngendlela efanelekileyo ekhaya.
Ukuphuma phandle kuyeyona ndlela yendalo kwaye kumnandi kuwe ukuba uzilolonge, udibane nabanye abantu abanoboya kunye nabantu, uzive amavumba ahlukileyo,… ngamafutshane, ukuze ube yile nto uyiyo: inja. Nangona kunjalo, Ude uhambe inja ixesha elingakanani?
Impendulo ilula: kokukhona ukudibanisa.. Inja sisilwanyana ekufuneka sonwabe kufuneka siphume, ewe okanye ewe, ngaphandle kwendlu amatyeli aliqela ngosuku. Ukusukela ukuba uneenyanga ezimbini ubudala, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba aphume aye kubethwa ngumoya kunye nomntu omthandayo, ukuba kunokwenzeka kwiindawo esazi kwangaphambili ukuba zicocekile okanye zicocekile. Ngapha koko, kuya kufuneka sazi ukuba wakuba ufumene zonke izitofu zokugonya singakuthatha yonke indawo kuba uya kuba ulufumene lonke ukhuseleko olufunayo.
Ngoku, ngaba kukho ixesha elincinci? Inyani yile ewe, kwaye iya kuxhomekeka ngaphezulu kwayo yonke iminyaka yobudala benja kunye nemeko yayo. Ke, iinjana ezinenyanga ezimbalwa ubudala kufuneka ziye kubethwa ngumoya okungenani imizuzu eli-10 ubuncinci kathathu ukuya kane ngemini; Abantu abadala abakwimilo entle baya kuhamba ubuncinci imizuzu engama-30 ukuya kuma-3-4 amaxesha ngemini, kwaye izinja ezindala malunga nemizuzu eli-15 ukuya kwezi-20 kabini okanye kathathu rhoqo kwiiyure ezingama-24. Ukuba asikwazi ukuyikhupha amaxesha amaninzi, inokunikwa uhambo olunye olude ngemini (malunga nemizuzu engama-45 ubuncinci).
Ke ngoku uyazi: ungashiyi inja yakho yodwa ekhaya imini yonke. Yithathe uhambe nayo nokuba ukhwele uhambo olude ekuseni okanye ukutshona kwelanga. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukubulela 🙂.