Xa inja yakho ilinde amantshontsho, imithambo-luvo kunye nokukhohlisa kulula ukuba sizithathe. Kuthantamisa kakhulu ukubona abantwana bezalwa, kwaye ujonge indlela oomama ababakhathalela ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, sihlala sizibuza ukuba uza kufika nini umhla omkhulu, umzuzu wokugqibela apho abo banoboya ekugqibeleni baphume.
Ke ngoko, ngeli xesha siza kukuxelela umithi njani intshontsho?, kunye nezinye iinkcukacha eziya kuba ngumdla kuwe.
Ukukhulelwa Ihlala phakathi kweentsuku ezingama-58 ukuya kuma-67, i-avareji ingu-63. Umzekelo, ukuba zizinjana zohlobo olukhulu, eyona nto ixhaphakileyo kukuba ixesha lokumitha lifutshane kuba ezincinci ziphelelwa yindawo ngokukhawuleza kunezo zincinci.
Ukwazi ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi kokukhulelwa kwethu koboya kuya kuhlala ixesha elingakanani ukuba sinako kunganomdla ukubuza umfuyi, kuba zihlala zigcina irekhodi lokuzalwa kwenkunkuma nganye eziyivelisayo. Ngapha koko, ukuba asinakuba nokwenzeka okanye ukuba umhlobo wakho wamkelwe, singabuza ugqirha wezilwanyana ngubani, ngokujonga kwakhona, oza kuba nakho ukusixelela ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi xa umhla omiselweyo uza kuba.
Ndifumene i Unonophelo oluyimfuneko, iinjana ziya kuzalwa ngaphandle kwengxaki ngawo wonke umhla, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba umntu obhinqileyo aye kubeleka kwangoko kunokuba bekulindelwe. Njengokuba bezelwe ubuncinci ngomhla wama-58, amathuba okusinda aya kuba phezulu kakhulu, kodwa ukuba bayayenza ngaphambili ... ngelishwa bahlala besifa kusuku okanye ezimbini emva kokuba bezelwe.
Siyathemba ukuba eli nqaku beliluncedo kuwe, kodwa ukuba unawo nawaphi na amathandabuzo, ungathandabuzi ukunxibelelana nathi.