Ubudlelwane phakathi kwenja kunye nomntu buya umva kumawaka eminyaka; kukho izifundo ezifumana nokuba ivela phi kwi-Prehistory. Kungenxa yoko le nto ifayile ye- izakhono zokunxibelelana Phakathi kwezi ndidi zombini, namhlanje, kuyinto engaqhelekanga, kodwa inyani kukuba kusekho indlela ende yokuhamba. Ngeli xesha sishwankathela ubuchwephesha obucebiswa ziingcali ukuba zithethe nezi zilwanyana ngendlela eziqonda ngayo kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Okokuqala, zonke ezi ndlela zonxibelelwano zisekwe kumonde nothando. Asizukufezekisa nantoni na ngokukhwaza, kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha sithetha nenja yethu kufuneka sisebenzise u ithoni ethambileyo yelizwi, nangona siqinile ukuba sifuna ukulungisa nakuphi na ukungaziphathi kakuhle. Ngaphandle koko sinokucaphukisa ukwaliwa kwabo kwaye sikhokelele kwiingxaki zokuziphatha.
Kwelinye icala, kubalulekile tsala umdla wakho ukunxibelelana ngomlomo naye. Singakwenza oku sisebenzisa igama lakho okanye elinye igama esaziyo ukuba ungalibona, kwaye ulikhaphe ngomqondiso oqhelene nawo. Izinto zokudlala kunye nokutya okushiyekileyo lolunye ukhetho. Ngale ndlela, kufuneka sichaze isifundo esandula ukupapashwa yilo jenali Iinkqubo zeRoyal Society B, Ebonisa ukuba ithoni ephezulu yelizwi iyasinceda ukuba sibambe ingqalelo yezi zilwanyana.
Kukwalungele nokwenza ukuba inja ifunde amanye amagama aphambili, ngakumbi ukomeleza imiyalelo yokuthobela. Umzekelo, "usahleli", "hlala phantsi", "yiza" okanye "ulale", banokuba luncedo kuthi. Siza kuba nakho ukwenza oku ngokuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo (ukutya, iithoyi kunye ne-caresses njengemivuzo) kunye nokuphindaphinda rhoqo. Soloko uchitha umonde kunye nothando oluninzi.
Okokugqibela, kufuneka sinike ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kule nto inja ifuna ukusixelela yona, kuba unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo lufuna ukuqonda kubo bobabini. Ngale nto, akukho nto ilunge ngakumbi kunoku bafunde ulwimi lwabo lomzimba kwaye ufunde ukuyitolika.