Amaxesha amaninzi kwenzeka ukuba kungavuleki masango, isilwanyana sasekhaya Ubaleka ngokungxama Kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu esibonakalayo, oku kunokwenzeka nangexesha lokuhamba kwakho kwemihla ngemihla okanye ngelixa udlala epakini.
Ke yintonikufuneka senze ntoni ukuba inja yethu inale ndlela yokuziphatha ngaphandle kwesizathu? Okokuqala, chonga Isizathu sokuziphatha kwabo kwaye kukho izizathu eziqinisekisiweyo ezikhokelela inja yethu ukuba ibaleke, umzekelo, ukuba ixhala malunga nokungabikho kwenye yeenkosi zayo, ngenxa yokuphulukana nomlingane wayo kutshanje, ngesandi esithile esicaphukisayo (pyrotechnics), ukuba kukho inja ekufutshane ukuba nenzondelelo okanye ngenxa yokuba engafundiswanga ngexesha. Nje ukuba ingxaki ichongiwe, Kuya kufuneka uzame ukuyisombulula ukuba kunokwenzeka ngoncedo lweengcali.
Unokwenza ntoni xa inja yethu ibalekile?
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwimeko yokuba inja yethu ibaleke, ayikokubaleka emva kwayo, kuba Oku kuyenza imeko ibe mandundu ngeendlela ezininzi, kwaye isenokudala iingozi ezimasikizi kwisilwanyana sasekhaya.
Zininzi iindlela zokusingatha le meko
Sukubaleka, lala phantsi emhlabeni oza kutsala umdla wenja kwaye iya kubuya izokwanelisa umdla wayo.
Yiya kwelinye icala lenja, Phembelela isilwanyana ukuba sisileqe eya kuthi ivuse ingqalelo yabo ize kuthi. Oko kuyakumfundisa ukuba makalandele emva kwethu hayi enye indlela.
Ukuhlala phantsi, ngasemva okanye kwelinye icala lenja okanye ukulala ngomqolo, njengesiqhelo nanjengesiphumo sokuziphatha kwethu. Siza kuvusa ubuqili bezilwanyana zasekhaya kwaye uya kulingeka ukuba usondele uze ubone okwenzekayo.
Ukuzama ukumkhohlisa ngokuvula umnyango kwaye umbize ukuba eze. Ukuba sihlala sisebenzisa uhlobo oluthile lwe umyalelo okanye igama eliphambili kuhambo lwemihla ngemihla okanye ukuba inja iyayamanisa nokuvulwa komnyango nokuhamba, iya kuyimamela iminxeba yethu.
Zininzi nomonde phambi kwemeko yokubaleka.
Lawula yethu ithoni yelizwi kunye nolwimi lomzimba kuba inja sisilwanyana esiqondayo kwaye ukuba ivakalelwa kukuba siza kuyikhalimela okanye siyayohlwaya, ayizukuyimamela iminxeba yethu kwaye iya kuhlala ibaleka isiya kwelinye icala.
Kuphephe kuzo zonke iindleko ukohlwaya isilwanyana sakho kuba isiphumo siyakuba kukuba emva kokubaleka, kuthatha ixesha elide ukubuya okanye ayibuyi ngenxa yokoyika isohlwayo.
Xa inja ithobela umnxeba wethu okanye amaqhinga ethu, kufuneka uvuzwe nge-caresses, ngethoni enelizwi okanye ngebhaso elithile elinokutyiwa. Ukomeleza ezi zimvo zintle kumfundisa ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha ethobela uya kuvuzwa ngokuziphatha kakuhle kwaye yile nto ilindelwe kuye.
Zininzi iingozi ezichaziweyo ezinxulumene nokubaleka kwenja yethu
Ukuba bayalahleka, oko Amaqela esithathu ayifanele, ezibangela iingozi kubantu besithathu, zinokuqhutywa ngaphezulu, njl.
Kuyacetyiswa ukuba Ukusetyenziswa kweekhola ezineepleyiti ezichonga igama lesilwanyana sasekhaya kunye neefowuni zonxibelelwano ukufumana abanini bazo, kwamanye amazwe ukumiliselwa kwe Chip kwisilwanyana kunyanzelekileNangona, okokugqibela, ukuba inja inomdla wokubaleka, kufuneka igcinwe kwindawo yayo, kuthintele ukushiya iingcango zivulekile kwaye ubeke ezinye iinkqubo, izithintelo, njl.njl.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba imfundo efanelekileyo Kuba isilwanyana sethu siyinjana, iya kuyiphepha le kunye nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezingafanelekanga ezinokubangela Ukuhlala kunye nenja yethu yonke imihla Iya isiba nzima kangangokuba kunzima ukuhlala ekhaya kwaye leyo yinjongo yethu xa sigqiba ukuthenga okanye ukuthatha injana.
Okokugqibela, masingakulibali ukuba, phambi kokubaleka kwenja yethu, eyona mpendulo imbi sinokuba nayo emva kwakhe.