Kutheni le nto inja yam izikhulula ekhaya?

"Imali inokukuthengela inja elungileyo, kodwa ayizukukuthengela umsila."
UHenry Wheeler Shaw, Umhlekisi waseMelika.

Enye yeengxaki eziqhelekileyo abanini bezinja abaninzi beza kum nazo, kukuba isilwanyana sichama kwaye sizikhuphe ngaphakathi endlwini. Ngaphezu, i80% yabathengi bam bahlala bendibuza olo hlobo lombuzo kwiseshoni yokuqala. Kwaye kulapho umsebenzi kunye nabo uqala khona.

Namhlanje siza kubona ukuba zeziphi ezona mpazamo zidla ngokwenziwa ngabantu xa bezama ukufundisa izinja zethu into ebaluleke kangaka. Ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, ndikushiya nomnyango “Kutheni le nja yam izikhululela ekhaya?”. Ndiyanqwena uyayithanda.

Abanini bezilwanyana bahlala bethatha into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba isilwanyana sabo sihlonele ingaphakathi lekhaya labo, ikhaya labo, kwaye singashiyi yonke into igcwele umchamo kunye nokufakwa, umba oqhele ukuba sisizathu esikhulu sokwahlukana nomhlobo wethu osenyongweni, Ukusukela ekubeni yeyona nto iphambili ayenzayo umniniyo kwinqanaba lomsebenzisi, ukumngxolisa nokumngxolisa, le nto iyenza nzima imeko nangakumbi, kwaye ibangela ukuba ubudlelwane bemvakalelo nomhlobo wethu osenyongweni buthotyelwe ngawo omabini amaqela, kusibangela ukuba isilwanyana sinciphise ngokwabo iimvakalelo ezingalunganga zokukhathazeka kunye nomsindo, othi ukuba asazi ukuba siziphathe njani siyakuphela sijika nenja, eya kuthi iguqule imvakalelo njengeyitshabalalisayo ekufundeni njengoloyiko, into ekufuneka siyiqinisekisile ukuba inja evela injana ungaze ulinge. Emnyango, Ukufundisa kwinqanaba leemvakalelo: Uxinzelelo olubangelwa ngabantu, Uya kufumana ulwazi oluthe kratya kwesi sihloko. Masiqhubeke kwaye siqale ngezinto ezibalulekileyo.

Ukusilela okuqhelekileyo

Kufuneka ubengumntu ...

Amaxesha amaninzi, abantu baba ngabanini bezinja (okanye inja ngumnini wethu, amaxesha amaninzi awusoze wazi ukuba uphi umgca. Kubiza ...) ngaphandle kokuqala sizazise kancinci malunga nendlela ingqondo yalowo uya kuyo ube ngumhlobo wethu osenyongweni (kwaye ekufuneka sibe ngoyena mhlobo ubalaseleyo kuye) okanye indlela yokumphatha nokumfundisa njengenjana, into esisiseko ukuba sifuna ukuba onwabe.

Ubuntwana benja bubalulekile njengobo bomntwana womntu, ixesha lokukhula kwalo ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-6 kubaluleke kakhulu. Elo xesha linokulingana kuninzi lwabantu (ngokwahluka okwaziwayo phakathi kweentlanga kunye nobukhulu) ukuya kwixesha lokukhula eliqala ukusuka kwiminyaka emi-4 ukuya kweli-12 yomntwana womntu.

Inkcubeko edumileyo malunga nenja, isenza ukuba sifune ukuyifundisa ngendlela efanayo abasifundise ngayo kwiimeko ezininzi, ngokugculelwa nangesohlwayo somlomo nangokwasemzimbeni, esingafikeleli kwiziphumo ezilungileyo ebantwini, Ewe, ibingazukubakho ezahlukeneyo kwizilwanyana, nangaphezulu kwayo nayiphi na into xa bengaziqondi izinto ezifana nathi.

Indlela yokucinezela indlela yokuziphatha okanye indlela yokuziphatha ngogonyamelo inokusikhokelela ekubeni sandise isimilo, ethi kwiimeko ezininzi ikhokelele kwiingxaki zenja yethu, ekhokelela kwiingxaki ezininzi kuthi.

Eyona ndlela imdaka neyona isebenzayo yokufunda

Ngamaxesha amaninzi ndibuza umthengi ukuba uzame njani ukufundisa inja yakhe ukuba izikhulule esitalatweni, Undixelela ukuba usebenzisa indlela yakudala nengalunganga yokuthambisa isicheme sezilwanyana ngokuchama umchamo okanye isitulo, asinike incasa ngelixa sikhala kwaye njengesiphelo sokugqibela, wohlukane naye ngokumshiya evaleleke egumbini okanye ngokumsa kwipati okanye kwibhalkhoni. Kwaye ngesiqhelo loo mntu xa endixelela, akalindelanga ukuba ndimxelele ukuba isiphoso siyiloo nto kanye kwaye uxanduva lwalo mbandela (olungelotyala lakhe) lolwakhe ngokupheleleyo. Baninzi abade bayiphikise loo nto. Ndinikezela eli nqaku kubo.

Le ndlela ayinantsingiselo kuphela kwi-1000% (ungenzi mpazamo, bendifuna ukubhala iwaka) kodwa ikwayinto embi, uxolo, bendithetha i-GUARRADA, kwaye oku kungaphezulu kwayo yonke into ebonisa ukuba asiloncedo nganto xa kufikwa kumba wokufundisa omnye umntu ophilayo. Ukuba ukhetho lwethu lokuqala xa ufundisa into ebaluleke njengokuthi inja ayichami okanye ichithe ngaphakathi kwekhaya lethu, ikhaya esabelana naye, yindawo enjalo, kuya kufuneka siphinde siqwalasele kwangalo mzuzu ukuba sinako ukuthatha isikhokelo Ubomi bomntu oxhomekeke kakhulu kwisikhokelo sakhe somntu (yindlela endithanda ukuyichaza ngayo) kuyo yonke into ukusuka ekutyeni, ukuya kuphuma ndonwabe.

Injana lusana

Injana iyafana nosana. Akanakho kwaye akufuneki eme ukuzikhulula imini yonke. Akunakwenzeka ngokwasemzimbeni, kwaye ngenxa yezizathu ezifanayo njengomntwana. Umzimba wakhe awukagqitywa kwaye izihlunu zakheka. Njengokuba ungadingi umntwana oneminyaka emi-3 ukuba abambe yonke imini ngaphandle kokuchama, awunakho kwaye akufuneki ufune injana eneenyanga ezi-3 okanye ezi-4 ubudala.

Kuya kufuneka sifunde ngaphakathi okoko sikhathalele isilwanyana, ukuba injana phakathi kweenyanga ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-6 ubudala kufuneka ichame kube kanye kwimizuzu engama-60. Ukuba awuzokwazi ukulawula oku, kungcono ungabinayo inja. Okanye ubuncinci sukukhetha injana njengeqabane. Xa usamkela inja eneminyaka emi-4 okanye emi-5 ubudala, umntu akahlali edibana nezi ngxaki. Kungenxa yoko le nto ukhetho lokuthatha umntwana kufuneka lusoloko luxatyiswa.

Ngaba sibuza kakhulu? Ewe kakhulu…

Kwaye kukuba umntu ongakhange aqeqeshwe okanye anikwe ulwazi, onolwazi kuphela ngesihloko esintsonkothileyo nesibanzi njengemfundo ye-canine, akanalo nofifi ngento ayifunayo kwisilwanyana, xa elinde ukuba abambe ngaphandle kokuzikhulula. ngeeyure ukususela kumncinci kakhulu.

Asihlali sicamngca ukuba inja kuphela kwesilwanyana esimele ukuphuma ngaphandle kwekhaya lethu, ikhaya elilelakhe, ukwenza iimfuno zalo zomzimba ezisisiseko.

Iintaka, iintlanzi, iikati, iihagu zeginea, kwaye ekugqibeleni naziphi na iintlobo ezahlukeneyo esinazo njengezilwanyana zasekhaya, zinendawo ngaphakathi endlwini yokuzikhulula, ngelixa Sifuna ukuba inja ilinde kwaye yenze xa sifuna (Imfutshane ngokufutshane), kwaye siyenza kwasebuntwaneni bakhe. Akubonakali kulungile kum. Inyani.

Ukuba siyayithanda inja yethu kakhulu, kufuneka sizame ukwenza ubomi bakho bube lula ngangokunokwenzeka, Kananjalo nokuba zonke iimfuno zakho zigutyungelwe kwaye zilungelelaniswe ngokugqibeleleyo noluntu lwethu. Olo luthando, ukungachithi imini yonke simanga nokumanga size simbethe size simhlukumeze xa ezihlangula ekhaya engakhange achaze into esifuna ukuyenza ngendlela ayiqondayo. Yinto ebalulekileyo leyo, kwaye singakholelwa ukuba siyasithanda isilwanyana sethu kuba simvumela ukuba angene esofeni.

Kutheni uchamela ngaphakathi hayi estratweni?

Iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokusilela

Kulula kakhulu ukubuza lo mbuzo, nangona kungekho lula ukuwuphendula, kwaye nesisombululo asikho lula. Kuya kufuneka iqondwe ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala ukuba injana engafundiswanga ngokuchanekileyo, inokwenzeka ukuba iqhubeke nokuchama ekhaya. Kwaye seso sizathu sokuba amaxesha amaninzi, eso silwanyana siphelela esitalatweni. Okanye okubi nangakumbi, kwi-zoo ye-Zoo-Sanitary, i-pun eyenzelweyo.

Sele sikuthethile kwaye sakuqonda oku, masibone ukuba zifunda njani izinja kwiinjana, kunye namanye amatyala endiwenzayo.

Ukufunda ukwenza nantoni na

Izinja zifunda ngendlela esisiseko, Kwaye ukufunda kwabo kusekwe njengakwethu, kwimeko yeemvakalelo, ukuxabisa nawaphi na amava amatsha "njengamnandi" okanye "angathandekiyo" nokudibanisa imvakalelo nayo.

Xa iziphumo zovavanyo "zingathandeki" kubo, bahlala benxulumana iintlobo ezi-3 zeemvakalelo ezisisiseko njengoloyiko, umsindo okanye unxunguphalo. Ezi mvakalelo zihlala zikhokelela ekusebenzeni kweendlela zabo zoxinzelelo, isebenze inkqubo yakhe yemfesane enovelwano, eya kwenza umhlobo wethu omncinci asebenze kwiimfuno zakhe kwaye andise nasiphi na isimilo, esingaphilanga kakhulu njengokuba umntu enokucinga.

Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka siqaphele ukuba ngokurabha ubuso benjana enenyanga ezine ngomchamo, ukumbetha emva koko amohlwaye, uya kuyixabisa njengento engathandekiyo kwaye ngenxa yoko, kude nokuba nenja efundileyo, siyakuba nenja eqala ukuba noxinzelelo ukusuka kumncinci kakhulu kwaye sijolise kuko. Oku akunampilo kakhulu ngokubhekisele kubophelelo lweemvakalelo phakathi komnini nenja, kwaye alunalo naliphi na ixabiso le-didactic. Kusendle kwaye kufuneka siyiphelise.

Asinakuze sifundise inja ngokuthetha kuphela into esingayithandiyo ukuba ayenze, kwaye ingaphantsi ngokuyicinezela ngokwasemzimbeni ngokwenza iimfuno zayo zendalo. Siya kuba nakho ukubangela uxinzelelo kwaye ekugqibeleni sivelise ingxaki enkulu kakhulu.

Ingxaki ngokuthembela ukohlwaywa emzimbeni kwimfundo kukuba eyona nto iphela ekufundisweni komfundi kukusombulula iingxabano ngogonyamelo. Kwaye ayilunganga abantwana okanye izinja.

Eli linyathelo lokuqala ekufuneka liguqulwe ukuba sifuna ukubanakho ukufundisa inja yethu ukuba izikhulule esitalatweni. Ayisiyonto yokohlwaya xa uyenza, ngokungathi unomvuzo xa ungakwenzi.

Masongeze uxinzelelo kwi-equation

Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba yinkqubo enjani edluliswa zizinja ezininzi xa zingenakho ukubanakho ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zazo, zisisizathu sokuba zingayeki ukukroba ekhaya.

Ngokwesiqhelo, injana encinci eyahlulwe kunina sele inengxaki yoxinzelelo. Olu xinzelelo luhlala lubuhlungu kwaye amaxesha amaninzi abantu abanalo uvelwano njengoko imeko ifuna njalo, kwaye sinokwenza iimpazamo ezinzulu, ezinjengokuzama ukufundisa ukohlwaya kunye nokungcikivwa, okusikhokelela ekubeni simfake kwimeko apho engakwaziyo ukuphatha kakuhle, nto leyo eya kuba ngumthombo oqinisekileyo woxinzelelo.

Xa inja inoxinzelelo, ichama ngakumbi, Kuba ngomchamo ususa inxenye yokugqithisa kwehormoni zoxinzelelo ezisemzimbeni wakho ngexesha loxinzelelo. Xa uchama kakhulu, ufuna amanzi amaninzi, kwaye okukhona usela, kokukhona uchama. Oku kuyimfuneko ukuze ube nakho ukulinganisela kwaye ube nakho ukungena kwimeko yokuphumla ngokuchanekileyo.

Ukuba, ukongeza kwiinkqubo zoxinzelelo ahlangabezana nazo, simdibanisa noxinzelelo, simthethisa, simngxolisa kwaye simhlukanise neqela, ngaphandle kwakhe esazi ukuba kutheni, sizokwazi ukongeza ipetroli umlilo, okanye ulwelo olungaphezulu kwisinyi sakhe, njengoko ufuna ukuwujonga.

Baninzi abantu into abayenzayo ithintela ukufikelela kwabo kumanzi okusela okanye bawasuse ngokuthe ngqo. Impazamo enkulu. Oku kuyakuyonyusa ingxaki, kuba ukungabinakho ukufikelela ngokusisigxina kwizibonelelo eziyimfuneko kubo njengoko amanzi asezandleni zabo kuya kubangela uxinzelelo ngakumbi, ngenxa yoko baya kufuna amanzi amaninzi ukuze bakwazi ukuphelisa iihormones zoxinzelelo kwigazi labo, kwaye ungenawo la manzi, kuya kwandisa uxinzelelo ngakumbi, kungoko baqala iluphu apho kungayi kubakho kwenzeka ukuba baphume bodwa kwaye apho umzimba wakho we-biochemistry unento eninzi yokuyithetha.

Ukungabikho kokusesikweni kwabantu

Ngaphandle kwayo yonke into ekhankanyiweyo, akulunganga kakhulu ukukuxelela kuphela xa uyenzile kakubi hayi xa uyenza kakuhle. Kwaye kuyinto yabantu.

Nabani na onenja, kwaye uyakhawuleza kwaye uyanyanzela ukuyithethisa ngokumbetha ngokwasemzimbeni, kufanelekile ngakumbi ukuba ayivuze inja yakhe xa esenza into avumelana nayo kwaye imenza onwabe.

Ukukholelwa ukuba isilwanyana kufuneka sithathe kancinci ukuba siyinkosi yaso kwaye kufuneka ngalo lonke ixesha sifune ukusikholisa, kukubandezeleka kumnqweno wobukhulu obukufuphi nokuba yintlalontle enezakhiwo zikaMesiya kunokuba sibe Umhlobo osenyongweni kunye neqabane lesilwanyana elithembekile njengezinja.

Injana yam ifana ncam nosana

Ungamthethisa umntwana womntu oneminyaka emi-2 ngokuzichamela? Ungabona okuqhelekileyo komnye umntu ukuba akwenze? Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo. Yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iluluntu ukuba usana lwethu luzichamele, kuba lungena kwinto yendalo kwinqanaba lophuhliso lwalo nje emva kokuba luzelwe. I-anatomy yakhe ayiphuhliswanga ngokupheleleyo, kwaye isinyi kunye ne-sphincter akunakwenzeka ukubambelela kuyo. Kufuneka uphume rhoqo. Yinto yendalo njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili. Ewe, injana iyafana.

Ayikokumthethisa nje kuphela akunamsebenzi kuba engenalo nofifi lokuba ayilunganga okanye awufuni ayenze, kwaye ukuyithetha kuye ngogonyamelo ayizukumenza ukuba afumanise ngokukhawuleza okanye kwangoko, iyakumenza kuphela ukulayisha uxinzelelo kwaye oko kuya kubenza bangakhuseleki ngakumbi, xa bephethe iimvakalelo ezonakalisayo ezinjengomsindo, unxunguphalo okanye uloyiko ukusukela emncinci kakhulu. Ongasifanelangayo nakancinci.

Yintoni eqondwa ngcono ngoku kuba yinto enezothe ukuyenza, ukukhuhla impumlo ngeemfuno zayo nokumthethisa ngaphezulu?

Ewe, ukuba uyayiqonda, kusekho ithemba ngenja yakho. Kodwa, Funda eli nqaku kwakhona kwasekuqaleni.

Kodwa ndingenza ntoni kuAntonio?

Akukho nyango lwasekhaya

Kuya kufuneka uyenze ngaphakathi. Akukho nyango lwasekhaya. Akukho qhinga lilula okanye nabuphi na ubuchule okanye iqhinga elinokusinceda siyeke inja yethu ekuchameni nasekungcoleni ekhayeni lethu, elilelakhe.

Kwaye akufuneki bafunyaniswe benetyala okanye oko kuyakwenza kuphela ukuba sikhulise zonke iintlobo zeemvakalelo ezingalunganga xa ujikeleze injana, sinxibe uxhulumano lweemvakalelo kunye naye, oluhlazekile ngabo babini ngexesha elinye. Kwaye yile nto singayifuni.

Ukuthetha malunga nendlela yokulungisa

Ewe, kuba ingumxholo obanzi kakhulu, ndithathe isigqibo sokuwubamba kumanqaku ambalwa, le yokuqala apho ndithetha khona ngokusilela okuxhaphakileyo kunye neenkalo zayo ezahlukeneyo, apho ndizama ukucacisa izinto ezisisiseko ezinje inja lusana (ukuba awukayiva le nto, masikhe sihambe gwenxa), ukuba ubundlobongela ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngamazwi akufundisi kwaye ingangumbuzo wengxaki yokukhulelwa komntu, yeyiphi imeko eyiyo.

Yiyo loo nto ndikumemela kwinqaku elilandelayo endiza kukushiya kulo veki izayo., kweli phepha lenja uyithandayo, kwaye iya kuthwala isihloko esichazayo "Uyenza njani inja yam iyeke ukuchama ngaphakathi endlwini". Sukuphoswa yiyo.

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