Abo kuthi banezilwanyana zasekhaya bayazi ukuba ziluncedo kakhulu kusapho lonke. Bagcina abantu abadala nabantwana befana. Kwikhaya elinezilwanyana kunye nabantwana kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba bobabini kufuneka bafundiswe ukuhloniphana ukunqanda iingxaki. Siza kubona ukuba kutheni uhlaselo lwenja lusenzeka ebantwaneni kunye nendlela yokuzikhusela.
Kuyinto engaqhelekanga ukuba inja iyaluma okanye yenzakalise umntwana, ngakumbi ukuba sithetha ngenja esinayo ekhaya, kodwa yinto enokwenzeka. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo indlela ezenzeka ngayo ezi zinto kunye nendlela esiziphepha ngayo.
Kutheni le nto ukuhlaselwa yinja kusenzeka?
Ngokubanzi, izinja azikho ndlongondlongo ebantwini kodwa kunokubakho iimeko apho zikhona khusela okanye usokolise. Kukho nezinja ezingalinganiyo kwaphela yiyo loo nto zisabela kakubi kwiimeko ezininzi. Ngokubanzi, kubalulekile ukukhusela umntwana ekungeneni kwindawo yenja ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, ngakumbi ukuba inja ayiqhelananga nayo. Ingxaki ngabantwana kukuba asibafundisi ukunyanga izinja besebancinci kwaye abakayazi imiqondiso ethunyelwa sisilwanyana sasekhaya xa sifuna indawo. Ingxolo, ubuhlanga, kunye nokungangeneki kwabanye abantwana benza ukuba izinja zingoyiki kangako, ngoko ke banokulunyukiswa ngokukrwempa amazinyo.
Ukunikezelwa kwenja kunye nomntwana
Inyathelo lokuqala lokuphepha ungquzulwano kukuba umntwana kunye nenja bazazise. Inkwenkwe Inja mayiyivumba Kwaye akufuneki uyichukumise nje. Kuya kufuneka simfundise ukuba kuyimfuneko ukubona ukuba inja ifuna ukuba siyiphathe okanye sihambe, kwimeko apho kufuneka ashiyeke yedwa. Ezi nkcazo-ntetho zibalulekile, kuba ziphawula ukuqala kokuthembana phakathi kwaba babini, nto leyo eya kuthi ichaze ukungqubana okunokubakho kamva.
Ukuhlala kunye kwenja kunye nomntwana
Ngokuhlalisana kwenja nomntwana, kufuneka sifundise bobabini ukuba nembeko. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube nezimbo zomzimba ezimbi okanye uvumele umntwana athathe izinto enjeni. Ngokubanzi, bobabini bayayazi indlela yokunxibelelana kakuhle nabanye, ngezimbo zomzimba kunye neemoods, into abantu abadala abayifumana nzima ngakumbi. Kodwa ukuba umntwana ukhule engenaso isilwanyana sasekhaya, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kungokwemvelo ukuba athethe nabo. Kule meko sinako mfundise ezinye zeempawu zenja, xa efuna ukudlala, xa ezolile okanye xa onwabile.
Buza ngaphambi kokuchukumisa
Ngamanye amaxesha siye sabona abantwana beza kuziphathaphatha kwaye bade bagone izinja abazibona esitratweni. Kuqhelekile kuba bathanda izilwanyana zasekhaya. Nangona kunjalo, akulunganga ukuba bangene kwindawo yakho ngaphandle kwesilumkiso, njengoko izilwanyana zisenokungaziqondi izimbo zomzimba ezinjalo. Kungenxa yoko le nto besebancinci kufuneka sibafundise loo nto Kuya kufuneka babuze abaniniyo kuqala ukuba bayakwazi ukufuya isilwanyana sabo, kuba zikhona izinja ezingakunyamezeliyo okanye ezinokubandezeleka okungabavumeliyo ukuba basabele kakuhle kwezi zijekulo. Oku kuyakuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana abafumani kulunywa kungafunekiyo kwaye izinja azoyiki.
Izilwanyana zasekhaya besebancinci
Ngokufanelekileyo, abantwana kufuneka bahlale benezilwanyana zasekhaya besebancinci. Kungcono ukhethe izinja ezinesineke, njengoko abantwana banokubongamela ngengqwalaselo yabo. Izinja ezindala zinokuba lukhetho olufanelekileyo, nangona iinjana nazo zinethuba lokuba ziyadlala kwaye ziyonwabisa kunye. Ukuba umntwana unesilwanyana sasekhaya esemncinci kakhulu ukwazi ukunxibelelana naye kunye nezinye izilwanyana kuba uya kube ufundile ukufunda ulwimi lomzimba wakho kunye neempawu kunye neemoods zakho. Ke esona sisombululo sisiso kukufundisa intlonipho kunye nothando ekufuneka unalo kwisilwanyana sasekhaya esemncinci.