Ukuba wamkele inja kwaye sele iyinxalenye yosapho lwakho, ndiyavuyisana nawe! Usandul 'ukungenisa ekhayeni lakho ukuzaliswa luthando kunye nokunyaniseka. Nangona kunjalo, ngesilwanyana sasekhaya kuza uxanduva oluthile ekufuneka ulwenzile kunye neemfuno ekufuneka uzinyamekele.
Ukuba nenja kukwathetha ukuba uhlengahlengisa ngokufanelekileyo ekuhlaleni, ke kufuneka umfundise ukuba aziphathe ngendlela echanekileyo kwaye alungele imeko yakhe ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ukuba awunamava ngezinja, nantsi imigaqo yegolide ekufuneka uyilandele ukuze ukwazi ukuhlala ngokuchanekileyo kunye nazo!
Iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso xa unenja
Yixhase
Inja yakho ayiyi kuphila ubomi bonke kwaye yinto ebuhlungu ukuba loo nto intle kangaka ichitha ixesha elincinci ecaleni kwethu. Ke ngoko, yima ngaphandle kwemeko ethile kwaye ube lapho kuye ngamaxesha onke, kuba uya kubonisa ukuzinikela okufanayo kuwe. Khumbula ukuba inja yakho iya kuhlala ikudinga, kuba nguwe kuphela umntu anayo, ngelixa usenokuba nosapho lwakho, abahlobo kunye neqabane.
Bonisa uthando, ukuhlonipha kunye nentlonipho
Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe apha ngasentla, inja ayizukufumana inani elifanayo labantu nezixhobo onazo. Ngelixa unokuba nomsebenzi wobuchwephesha, izifundo zakho, izangqa zabahlobo kunye nosapho kunye nothando ubudlelwane, inja inayo wena kuphela kwaye eyona nto iphambili kuyo nguwe.
Ke ngoko, mnike lonke uthando kunye nokuzinikela akunikezela kuwe, kuba kufanelekile oku nangaphezulu.
Ukuhamba nokuzilolonga yonke imihla
Inja, njengathi, ifuna ukulungiswa komzimba, kuba kufuneka yomeleze kwaye yolule izihlunu, amathambo kunye nemisipha.
Ewe inja ayifuni ukuya kwindawo yokwenza umthambo, kodwa unokumnceda ukuba azilolonge. Xa usiya kubethwa ngumoya okanye ubaleka, thatha inja yakho kwaye uya kuyibona eyona nkampani intle kakhulu inokubakho xa usenza umthambo. Ngokukwanjalo, ukuba awungomthandi wobomi bokuqina, yiya nje uhambe nenja yakho.
Makhe ndihlalisane
Njengathi, inja ngumntu wentlalontle kwaye ukuba awuyivumeli ukuba idibane nezinye izilwanyana isencinci, iya kukhula idikwe, igcinwe kwaye yoyike okukujikelezileyo. Sukuvumela nje ukuba adibane nabanye abantu, kodwa nezinye izinja.
Fumana ipaki yenja kufutshane nawe kwaye uthathe inja yakho, ukuze idlale kwaye yonwabe nezinye izilwanyana zohlobo lwayo
Dlala nenja yakho
Izinja zidlala ngokumangalisayo kwaye naliphi na ixesha kuzo zilungile kumdlalo.
Xa esondela kuwe ukuba udlale, musa ukumala, kuba oku kuya kubuphelisa ubuhlobo bakho naye. Ngokufanayo, zama ukudlala nenja yakho yonke imihla kwaye udlale nezinye izinja. Inja ayifuni imidlalo enzima kakhulu, kuba into yokudlala elula njengebhola okanye intonga inokuguqula imva kwemini enesithukuthezi ibe ngumhla omangalisayo wemidlalo kuye.
Sukuzithoba
Abanini abaninzi bayazehlisa kuyo yonke into elungileyo okanye embi eyenziwa zizinja zabo, ngenxa yoko bayayiqhela kakubi kwaye baqale ukwenza nantoni na abayifunayo, becinga ukuba abanini babo bazakubalandela. Fundisa inja yakho ukuba kukho imigaqo kwaye kufuneka iziphathe ngendlela ethile.
Phakathi kwaba babini kufuneka kubekho ukuhloniphana
Fumana izixhobo eziyimfuneko
Izinja, njengathi, zifuna izixhobo zokuhlangabezana neemfuno zazo. Khangela indawo anokulala kuyo, iikhonteyina apho angatya khona kunye nokusela amanzi, kunye nendawo yokuya kwindlu yangasese. Kwakhona, yenza ukuba inja yakho ibe nezinto zayo zokudlala, kuba nangona ingadlala nabantwana, iintsholongwane ezishiya umlomo wenja zinokuba yingozi kubo.