Ukuchonga ukuba ngaba inja yam yonwabe ngokwenene kubalulekile ukuyazi imigaqo yempilo, Ukuze ukwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwenja eyonwabileyo okanye inja ilusizi kancinci, inoxinzelelo okanye yoyika.
Ngoko ke, impilo-ntle yesilwanyana ilingana nemo yengqondo ezihlala zikhona kwindalo esingqongileyo. Inja enempilo entle yeyokonwabela ukucocwa kakuhle kwaye ityiswe, engaziva zintlungu okanye ukungonwabi emzimbeni, engakhange idlule nakweyiphi na imeko ebuhlungu okanye iimeko ezibonisa uxinzelelo okanye uloyiko, ezinokuthetha ngokukhululekileyo zonke iindlela zabo zokuziphatha, oko kukuthi, bayakwazi ukunxibelelana ngaphandle kokubonisa naluphi na utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha.
Ndazi njani ukuba inja yam yonwabe ngokwenene?
Ukuba sifuna ukwazi ukuba ngaba inja yethu yonwabe ngokwenene, kufuneka sazi ukuba banayo yonke into abanayo ukuze bakwazi ukugcina impilo-ntle yabo. Nangona kunjalo, ayisoloko ilula kangako, njengoko kukho iimeko apho inja inayo yonke into eyimfuneko ukuze iphile kwaye yonwabe, kodwa inokubonisa ezinye iintlobo zeengxaki.
Ke siza kukunika izikhombisi ukuze ujonge ngokweenkcukacha xa inja yakho inakho konke ukonwaba.
Qala ngokujonga ukuba inja yakho yitya rhoqo kwaye ukuba unomdla wokutyaNgaphandle kwento yokuba izinja zaziwa ngokutya yonke into kunye nobungakanani bayo, amaxesha amaninzi ziyatya nje ngenxa yazo hayi kuba zilambile ngokwenene. Ke vavanya ukuba le yimeko yakho, ukuba akunjalo, kunokuba sisilumkiso sokuba into ayilunganga.
Ukusetyenziswa kwamanzi, ukuba inja yakho ihlala inebhotile yamanzi kwaye isela kuyo rhoqo, kungenxa yokuba umzimba wezinja ukrelekrele ngakumbi, ke indaleko ibonakalisile ukuba kufuneka bagcine ulwelo ngokulinganayo. Ngoku ukuba uqaphela ukuba inja yakho ayisebenzisi manzi kangangoko kufanelekile, kukho ingxaki. Khumbula ukuba izinja zihlala zinamandla kakhulu kwaye idlala kakhulu, ke ifuna ukuba ihlale ifakwa amanzi.
Ukongeza, ukuba izinja zidlala kumadama amanzi oko akuthethi ukuba zinokuziginya, kubalulekile ukuba zihlale zifakwe amanzi acocekileyo.
Izifo zikwangunobangela obalulekileyo obangela ukuba Uxinzelelo ezinjeni Kwaye ukuba xa inja igula, ihlala iyeka ukudlala, ayityi kwaye ihlala ichitha imini yonke kwikona yegumbi elirhoxisiweyo, ukuba ubona ukuba inja yakho inezimilo ezifanayo, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukuba umse kwangoko ugqirha wezilwanyana, ukuze akwazi ukwenza isifo. Nokuba akukho zintlungu zicacileyo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha ukubonisa uhlobo oluthile lokuphazamiseka ekufuneka sisombulule.
Ukubanjwa kwenja amaxesha amaninzi ayisiyondlela yokumgcina onwabile kwaye yenzelwe inja ehlala ibotshiwe kwaye nokuba sicinga ukuba ikhululekile kwaye yonwabile, siyakuqinisekisa ukuba akunjalo. Kuya kufuneka uyikhumbule loo nto inja kufuneka ikhululeke kwaye ikwazi ukuhamba ngezithuba, Ukudlala nokubaleka kwaye nangona izinja zinovelwano kakhulu kwaye ziyakwazi ukuziqhelanisa nemeko yomntu, oko akuthethi ukuba baziva bonwabile ngokupheleleyo kwezo meko okanye imeko-bume.
Akukho nto ilunge ngakumbi yokwenza ukuba inja yonwabe ngaphezu kokuchitha ixesha elifunekayo kwaye yinike ingqalelo eyifunayo, inja yakho iya kubulela kuwe kwaye iya kuba yinja eyonwabileyo kakhulu, ukuba nje ingabaleka, idlale kwaye inxibelelane nawe. Nokuba imisebenzi enje ngokuthatha uyonwabele kumadama amanzi okanye kumadama okudada, iya kuwakhupha onke amandla anayo kubo.
Ke ukuba ufuna ukugcina ifayile yakho Inja eyonwabileyo Qiniseka ukuba uphonononge kwaye uyithobele yonke into ekhankanyiweyo kweli nqaku.