Nangona ubuthulu boboya bethu bunokubonakala ngathi bungumqobo ekubeni sikwazi ukunxibelelana naye, enyanisweni indlela esiziphatha ngayo kuye akufuneki itshintshe nantoni na. Kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba, ewe, asizokwazi ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluthethwayo ukuthetha nawe, kodwa zikhona ezinye iindlela zokudlulisa imiyalezo kuwe ngolwimi lomzimba.
Ke, ukuba inja yakho ifunyenwe inohlobo oluthile lokungeva, siza kukunika uthotho lweengcebiso ukuze wazi ndinxibelelana njani nenja yam engevayo.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni kukuba inja kuphela enesiphene kukungeva, kodwa ayikho enye into, Oko kukuthi, uyabona kwaye uyanuka, engaphezulu kokwaneleyo ukuba uqhubeke nokonwabela ubuhlobo obuhle kakhulu. Ubuhlobo ekufuneka bukhathalelwe yonke imihla, ngee-caress, ngenkangeleko entle, kunye nemidlalo kwaye, kunjalo, ngamabhaso ngohlobo lokutya.
Ukuba ufuna ukumqeqesha, sebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba wakho. Umzekelo, ukumcela ukuba athule, ungasiphakamisa isandla sakho ngeminwe usondelelane ngokungathi ufuna iteksi okanye ibhasi. Okanye ungakhomba ngomnwe phantsi ukuba ufuna alale phantsi ngelixa usalathisa inyango yenyani emhlabeni. Unokusebenzisa ukukhanya ngaxa lithile.
Ukuthintela isimilo esibi, kungcono ukungazihoyi. Kuyaziwa ukuba isimilo esingazuziswanga sithanda ukunyamalala sodwa. Ewe, ukuba kuyingozi, musa ukuthandabuza ukucela uncedo kumqeqeshi osebenza ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ukukhusela kwakho kunye nezinye izinja, Kuyacetyiswa kakhulu ukuba usoloko uyinxiba ngehashe kunye nomtya, kungenjalo ubomi bakho bunokuba sengozini kungekudala okanye kamva.
Ngezi ngcebiso, ubudlelwane kunye noboya bakho obusisithulu buya kuhlala bulungile kuni nobabini