Ngaba wakha wayiva intetho? 'ube njengenja kunye nekati'? Le ntetho idumileyo ibhekisa kubudlelwane obubi ekucaca ukuba ezi zilwanyana zinazo omnye komnye. Kodwa oku akusoloko kuyinyani. Ukuhlalisana okuhle phakathi kwezinja kunye neekati kunokuba kunokwenzeka. Kukho ubandlululo oluninzi ngayo!
Ukuba inja yakho kunye nekati yakho azihambelani kakuhle, okanye ukuba uya kwamkela i-feline okanye inja enomnye wabo ekhaya, kweli nqaku uyakufumana uthotho izindululo zokuqinisekisa ukuhlala kunye nokuhambelana phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini.
Nangona zizilwanyana ezo zezentlobo ezahlukeneyo, kwaye baneendlela zokuziphatha ezahlukileyo kakhulu, oko akuthethi ukuba baya kuhlala bengalunganga. Izinja ezininzi nazo zihamba kakubi ekuqaleni, njengoko kunjalo ngeekati ezininzi, emva koko bafunda ukuhlonipha kwaye bathandane. Konke kuxhomekeke kwisimilo sesilwanyana ngasinye, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, kwindlela abaziswe ngayo ekhaya kwaye baziswa kusapho lonke.
Nangona ubudala, isini kunye nobume bezilwanyana zezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka sizithathele ingqalelo. Amakati aqhele ukuzimela ngakumbi, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba baziqhelanise nomdlalo omninzi ukuze basebenzise amandla abo, nangona befuna ukhathalelo olusisiseko kunye nemihla ngemihla. Izinja, kwelinye icala, zinobuhlobo ngakumbiKuya kufuneka baphumele ngaphandle, kwaye banxibelelane nabanini babo kunye nezinye izinja.
Njengabanini, kufuneka sihloniphe indalo yesilwanyana ngasinye, kunye nesimilo sayo, kwaye singasoloko singenelela okanye sisohlwaye ngenxa yeendlela ezibonakala zilungile kuthi. Bona, kuninzi lweziganeko, bayayazi indlela yokuzilungiselela. Indima yethu kufuneka ithintelwe ekufundeni indlela yabo yokuziphatha ngononophelo, kunye nokungenelela kuphela xa kufanelekile. Siza kukucacisela apha ngezantsi ngeenkcukacha ezithe kratya.
Hlela ukutya ngokufanelekileyo
Khumbula ukuba iikati nezinja zizilwanyana ezizithandayo, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ngexesha lesidlo sasemini, baye babe krwada ukukhusela oko bakuthatha njengokwabo. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile, ngakumbi ekuqaleni kobukho bokuhlalisana, ukubondla kwiindawo ezohlukeneyo kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba umntu ngamnye uzityela ukutya kwakhe ethe cwaka.
Usuku lokuqala lolona lubalulekileyo
Endle, ezi zilwanyana azinakuhlala kunye, gcinani engqondweni ukuba kungangqubana phakathi kwazo, ikati iyakukrwela okanye inja iveza amazinyo ayo. Yazisa ilungu elitsha ngendlela ezolileyo nendalo ukuze ikati okanye inja eyayisele isekhaya ingayiboni njengomntu ongenayo, kodwa njengelinye ilungu losapho.
Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubabeke ubuso ngobuso kwindawo ebanzi, kufuneka inja ngokukhethekileyo ihlale phezu komqala, kwaye ikati ikhululeke ukuze ikwazi ukufihla xa iziva ihlaselwa Ukuba ekuqaleni, banokuziphatha ngendlela engalawulekiyo, ungakhathazeki, kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ngokuhamba kwexesha baya kujongana kwaye banuke, kwaye baya kugqitywa ukwamkelwa, kungathatha iiveki, okanye iinyanga, kodwa baya kuthi. Kwaye nangona bengenako ukudala ubudlelwane obomeleleyo, baya kuthi ekugqibeleni baphelise ukunyamezelana, okwaneleyo.
Lawula uthando
Okufuneka ubenazo Lumka kwisixa sothando olunikwa omnye nomnye. Uthando kufuneka lulingane ukuze kungabikho khwele phakathi kwabo, ngokufanayo, sicebisa ukuba ungathandani kakhulu nabo, unokwenza ukunamathela okuninzi, kwaye ngenxa yoko, nomona.
Umona unokuba ngumqobo omkhulu kakhulu ekuhlaleni phakathi kwezinja neekati. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo akufuneki bube kukusilela, kwiimeko ezininzi, buya kugqibela ngokuvisisana, uyakufuna kuphela umonde, ixesha, kwaye, nengqondo eqhelekileyo.
Nika ingqalelo indawo
Xa usazisa ilungu elitsha, Gcina ukhumbula ukuba lowo wayesele ekho unokuziva ekrokrela ukukhusela indawo ayithatha njengeyakhe. Phantse ngalo lonke ixesha, indawo ebonakalayo ibonakaliswa kukugquma, ngozipho, okanye ukubonisa amazinyo kwesinye isilwanyana, ukuze siqonde ukuba le yindawo yaso.
Makisha iindawo ezahlukileyo ekuqaleni, mhlawumbi kufanelekile ukuba inja nekati ziindlongondlongo omnye komnye. Njengoko ixesha lihamba, uya kubona ukuba baya kwabelana ngayo yonke into, ukusuka kumathoyizi ukuya ebhedini. Akuqhelekanga ukubona ubudlelwane obunobubele phakathi kweekati nezinja. Banike ixesha lokwazana, bahloniphane kwaye ekugqibeleni bathandane.
Ndinekati nenja kwaye bayathandana, batya kunye kwindebe enye emva koko batshintshelene. Ikati yayineekati ezi-5 kwaye inja yalala nazo, yayingathi ngutata. Ikati ayidibanisi inja ibaleka ize kubona ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kuyo.