Ngaba usandul 'ukwamkela injana okanye uceba ukwenza njalo? Ukuba kunjalo, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzilungiselela nantoni na enokwenzeka. Into ke yile, inja encinci izakufuna ukuphonononga yonke into, kwaye ngelixa isenza oko, inokumangalisa ngaphezulu komntu omnye, ngakumbi ukuba lixesha lokuqala ukuhlala nenja.
Umnqweno wabo, izinto zabo ezihlekisayo, kunye nomnqweno omkhulu wokuhamba ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuya kuvumela usapho ukuba lube nexesha elimnandi. Kodwa ngokwenene, Injani indlela yokuziphatha kwezinja ezinjana?
Ukuluma
Nokuba kungenxa yokuba kuphuma amazinyo asisigxina, uyadlala okanye ngenxa yokuba enexhala, uyakuluma yonke into: ifanitshala, iithoyi, abantu, ... ukuyiphepha, kulunge ukuyithumela kwakhonaOko kukuthi, ukumnika isilwanyana esifakiwe ngalo lonke ixesha enenjongo yokuluma.
Yenza ishishini lakho naphina
Kuqhelekile, ngakumbi ngeentsuku zokuqala, ukuba injana ichame kunye / okanye ichase apho ifuneka khona. Ngesi sizathu, Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye umthathe uhambe amaxesha ngamaxesha ngemini, okanye mfundise ukusebenzisa ibhokisi yenkunkuma ngokumsa kwimizuzu engama-20 emva kokutya.
Khala ebusuku
Ukukhala kwenjana kulusizi kakhulu, kodwa kufuneka somelele. Kubalulekile ukuphepha ukumthuthuzela ngendlela ebesinokwenza ngayo emntwini, kungenjalo siza kuba simxelela ukuba kulungile ukuba alile. Nangona isenokubonakala ikhohlakele, kuya kuhlala kungcono ukushiya isikipa okanye nasiphi na isinxibo esisandula ukunxiba, kwaye ungayihoyi loo nto.. Xa uziva ivumba lomzimba wethu, uya kuziva uzolile.
Kwimeko apho inexesha elibi kakhulu, sinokusebenzisa izinto zokuphumla kwizinja eziza kumiselwa ngugqirha wezilwanyana.
Ukuphazamiseka lula
Ingqondo yenjana ifunda ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, kodwa iyaphazamiseka ngokumangalisayo. Kunjalo ngoba Kuya kufuneka siphindaphinde umyalelo ofanayo kaninzi, kwaye sigcine iiseshoni zoqeqesho zimfutshane (malunga nemizuzu emi-3-5) kodwa kumnandi ukuphatha inja kunye nezinto zokudlala.
Ukukhotha
Ukuba injana sisilwanyana esithanda ukuncamisa, kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kuthetha ukuba unomdla kakhulu, intle kakhulu 🙂. Ewe, ukuba siyabona ukuba ukhotha naliphi na ilungu lomzimba wakhe ngokugqithileyo, siya kumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana, kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba unezidleleli okanye enye ingxaki.
Ukonwabela ukuba kunye nenjana yakho.