Ngaba ucinga ngokuthatha umntu onomsindo? Eso sisigqibo esingafanele kuthathwa kancinci, kuba sithetha ngokuthatha ekhaya isilwanyana esinokuphila umyinge weminyaka engama-20, kwaye ngalo lonke eloxesha siyakudinga usapho olulungileyo ukuba lusikhathalele njengoko sinjalo. kufanelekile. Kwimeko apho sele uyicingisisile, ndingakuhalalisela kuphela, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo ubomi bakho kunye nobekhaya lakho buya kutshintsha kakhulu -kungcono- ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala isilwanyana sifika ekhaya.
Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi Ukwamkela injana iminyaka emingaphi, kuba ukuba yenziwe ngokukhawuleza, iingxaki zokuziphatha kunye / okanye ezempilo zinokuvela kwixesha elifutshane okanye eliphakathi. Masazise ke ngoko ukuba uboya bungakanani ukuze bohlukaniswe nonina kunye / okanye nabantakwabo.
Injana, ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya kwiinyanga ezimbini, kufuneka ihlale kunye nosapho lwayo. Umama ujongene nokumondla ngobisi ubuncinci inyanga enesiqingatha, kodwa ikwanguloo mntu umfundisa ukuba aziphathe njengenja; Ngamanye amagama, ngomdlalo uya kube ubeka imida ongenakugqitha kuyo. Le mida, ibekwe ngokuthamba maxa wambi, kunye nokuma phakathi kwabantakwabo ukunqanda ukungcakaza ekubeni yingxaki ngamanye amaxesha, kuya kunceda uboya ukuqala ukulawula amandla okuluma kwaye uziphathe kakuhle.
Kodwa ke, usapho lwakho loluntu kufuneka luthathele ingqalelo ukuba ukusukela kwiinyanga ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu inja ihamba ngexesha lentlalontle, apho kufanele ukuba iqhelane nobukho bezinye izinja, iikati, abantu kwaye ivezwe ingxolo. zeemoto nezo zekhaya. Ngesi sizathu, Elona xesha lilungileyo lokwamkela injana ziinyanga ezimbini, eya kuthi xa ilunyulwe kwaye ilungele bafunde izinto ezininzi ezintsha. 🙂