Ngamanye amaxesha sicinga ukuba xa isilwanyana sethu sihlala nathi sele enoluntu, kodwa into esingayaziyo kukuba inja kufuneka isetyenziselwe ukujongana nezinye izinja kwaye nezinye izilwanyana nabantu abahlukileyo kusapho lwabo bafunde ukuziphatha. Yi intlalo, kwaye kufuneka yenziwe ngakumbi kwinqanaba lenjana.
Ukuhlalisana nabo kubanceda bafunde kwezinye izinja indlela yokuthetha kunye nokuzihlonipha, indlela yokudlala kunye nokubanika ukhuseleko ngakumbi xa bedibana nabahlobo abatsha. Inja ehlangeneyo kakuhle kwaye sele iqhele zonke iintlobo zabantu, izinja kunye nezinye izilwanyana aziyi kuba nangxaki kwaye ziya kuyazi indlela yokuqonda imiqondiso eya kumenza arhoxe okanye abe ngumhlobo olungileyo.
Kuyimpazamo enkulu ukuba uninzi lwabanini lwenza ukwahlula injana kwezinye izinja. Ngelixa ungenawo onke amayeza okugonya, singakusa ekhayeni kubahlobo okanye kusapho oluye lwagonywa izinja, kuba imeko yendalo ikhuselekile. Ngale ndlela banako yazi ezinye izinja. Ukuba bayintanga yabo baya kufunda ukudlala nokuphatha oontanga babo ngolo hlobo, kwaye ukuba badala, baya kufunda ngokuziphatha kwezinja ezindala, ezihlala zibeka ibrake kwindlela abaziphethe ngayo xa zikhokelela kubundlongondlongo.
Kwelinye icala, kubalulekile ukuba inja yazi indlela yokujongana nabanye abantu, nabantwana, abantu abadala kunye nabantu abadala, kwaye udibana nabantu ngaphandle koloyiko. Injana elungeleleneyo iya kukulungela ukudibana nabantu abaninzi kwaye iya kuba nomdla. Ngale ndlela, kufuneka sifundise abantwana ukuba basondele kubo kwaye bazazise, ukuze baziva behloniphana.
Konke oku kufuneka kwenziwe kwifayile ye- Inqanaba lenjana. Ngezinja ezamkelweyo, ngekhe libekho ixesha, kwaye umsebenzi uya kuba mkhulu kwimeko yokuba befumene imikhwa emibi, kodwa into elungileyo kukuba izinja zikrelekrele kwaye zifunde ngokukhawuleza.