Umhlobo wethu othandekayo onemilenze emine uchitha ukuya kuthi ga kwiiyure ezili-15 elele, ke enye yezinto ekufuneka simthengele yona ibhedi, kodwa ayisiyiyo nje kwaphela, kodwa yeyona ilungileyo kuye. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka sijonge ukuba yeyiphi indawo ayamkelayo xa ephumla kwaye ajonge impilo yakhe.
Kwimarike siza kufumana iintlobo ezininzi, ke kweli nqaku siza kuchaza Ungayikhetha njani ibhedi yenja yam.
Umbhede wenja, njengathi, ubalulekile. Uya kuchitha iiyure ezininzi ngosuku kuyo, kubalulekile ukuba ikumgangatho kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, ikhululekile. Kodwa yintoni ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo ukuze ukhethe eyona ifanelekileyo?
- Ubungakanani benja xa sele ikhulile: inja sisilwanyana esikhula ngokukhawuleza, ukuya kuthi ukuba sincinci ngonyaka siza kube sigqibile ukukhula, kwaye sikhulu okanye sikhulu sithatha unyaka onesiqingatha okanye emibini. Ukuthenga ibhedi kuthathelwa ingqalelo ubungakanani oya kuba nayo xa ugqiba ukukhula kuya kusongela imali.
- Indlela yenja yokulala: kufuneka siqwalasele ukuba ulele ethe nca okanye ujijekile, kuba akahlali kwindawo enye kwindawo enye kwenye, kwaye ke, enye ibhedi ayizukuhlala kamnandi njengakwenye. Kwimeko apho alala zolule khona, eyona nto ibiya kuba kukumthenga isikwere okanye ibhedi yoxande, kodwa ukuba ulala egobile, uya kukhetha enye ye-oval okanye engqukuva.
- Impilo yenja: Ukuba unentlungu kwiliphi na ilungu lomzimba wakho, eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukuthenga ibhedi yamathambo.
Siyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso zikunceda ukuba uyazi ukuba ungayikhetha njani ibhedi kumhlobo wakho.