Kudala-dala nangoku, nanamhlanje, bekucingelwa ukuba izinja zifuna inkokeli ebalaseleyo ezobaxelela ukuba mabenze ntoni xa loo mntu efuna. Ewe bafuna umntu oza kubaxelela indlela yokuziphatha, kodwa ubudlelwane nomntu, ngokwembono yam, kufanele ukuba isoloko ivela koogxa bakho okanye kubahlobo, hayi "inkosi yezilwanyana kunye nokuzithoba."
Kuya kufuneka ubaphathe ngale ndlela bayiyo: izinja ezihle kakhulu ezinokukufundisa okuninzi ngawe, ngaphandle kokubaphatha njengabantu, kodwa ungaziphathi ngokungathi azinazimvakalelo ... kuba zinazo. Kodwa ke, abaluqondi ulwimi lwethu, ke kufuneka simncede aqonde ukuba silindele ntoni kuye. Masiyazi indlela yokuphatha inja yakho.
Umonde, ukungaguquguquki kunye nokungaguquguquki
Ezi zizitshixo zenja yokuhlala ngolonwabo kunye nathi, kwaye siziphathe ngendlela enesidima. Ukuphathwa gadalala, kokubethwa nokukhala, kuyakwenza kuphela ukuba isilwanyana sizive sinoloyiko, ukuba sizokufika senze le nto siyicelwayo, kodwa kuba siyazi ukuba xa singakwenzi, siyakuphathwa kakubi; obu ayibubo ubomi. Xa inja iziswa ekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba ube nomonde omkhulu kuye kwaye umhlonele. Asinakho ukuzenza ngathi sinomntu onoboya onomgangatho wobomi obulungileyo ukuba sithi abo simhluthayo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba masingqinelane. Ukuba utata umvumela ukuba angene ebhedini kodwa umama akenzi njalo, inja iya kudideka ... kwaye iphelele ekungeneni ebhedini kuba itofotofo ngakumbi kunesofa kwaye, ewe, ingaphezulu kweyayo ibhedi 🙂. Ke, ukusukela kusuku lokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukucacisa ukuba yeyiphi imida ukuthintela ukudideka.
Ukuzilolonga
Inja kufuneka uzilolonge yonke imihla, ukuhlala ngokomzimba kwaye ingakumbi imeko yengqondo. Yonke imihla kuya kufuneka uyikhuphe uhambe, amaxesha amaninzi kangangoko sinakho. Ukuba sinokwenza enye kuphela, kungcono ukubaleka (okanye nokuba uhamba ngebhayisikile) kunokuhamba, kodwa ukuba kukuhamba, kufanele kube kukude kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Ukuba sinethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba sibe nepaki yenja edolophini, Kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba umthathe ayonxibelelana nabanye abohlobo lwakhe kwaye udlale nabo.
Ngale ngcebiso, sinethemba lokuba umhlobo wakho uya konwaba kakhulu.