Xa sithabatha isilwanyana ngaphambi kokuba simse ekhaya baya kusenza ukuba sisayine isivumelwano sokuthathwa kwabantwana, Asinto yimbi ngaphandle kwesivumelwano esisemthethweni phakathi kwabantu ababini ukuze omnye wabo abe ngumgcini okanye umgcini weboya ukusukela ngoku.
Olu xwebhu lubaluleke kakhulu, kuba kuba lusemthethweni ngokusemthethweni kwimeko apho isivumelwano singathotyelwanga, umkhuseli okanye umnini wangaphambili angalibanga.
Ulawula ntoni umgaqo wesivumelwano?
Este sisivumelwano esisemthethweni phakathi kwamaqela amabiniUmamkeli kunye nomkhuseli wezilwanyana okanye phakathi kwabantu ababini bendalo. Uxwebhu aluchazi nje yonke into enxulumene nokuhanjiswa kwenja, kodwa kunye noxanduva usapho olutsha olunalo. Yiyo loo nto amagatya ayo emi ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- Umhla kunye nendawo yokuhambisa
- Isixa-mali ekufuneka sihlawule umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakhe
- Imeko yezempilo yesilwanyana (izifo ebesinazo okanye ebesinazo, unyango esele senziwe)
Ithini imigaqo kunye noxanduva losapho olutsha?
Umkhuseli okanye usapho lwangaphambili lufuna ukuba inja iye kwizandla ezilungileyo, ukuze Kwikhontrakthi yokwamkelwa komntwana siya kubona kwakhona ukuba uthotho lwemithetho kunye nezibophelelo ekufuneka sizithobele zibonisiwe, ezinjengokukhathalela ngokuchanekileyo ngaphandle kokuphatha kakubi okanye ukungahoyi, ukwamkela ukulandelwa, ukuhambisa isilwanyana ukuba umniniyo omtsha akakwazi ukusikhathalela, nokwazisa ukuba siyayitshintsha idilesi yethu.
Ngale ndlela, ikhontrakthi yolwamkelo luxwebhu olujika lubaluleke kakhulu kubo bobabini, kodwa ngaphezulu kwayo yonke inja, ekufuneka iphathwe ngendlela eyiyo, oko kukuthi, ngothando nomonde.
Ngaba iluncedo kuwe?