Ubudlelwane obulungileyo phakathi kwesilwanyana sasekhaya kunye nabantwana abancinci endlwini kubalulekile ukuba buphumelele Ukuhlalisana kakuhle; Kodwa ukuze oku kwenzeke, ungenelelo lomntu omdala luyimfuneko. Kufuneka sinyanzelise imigaqo ethile esisiseko ukuze bahloniphane kwaye badlale ngaphandle kokulimazana. Ezi zezinye zezitshixo eziya kusinceda sifezekise le njongo.
Okokuqala, kufuneka sifundise umntwana a hlonipha indawo yenja, kwaye ngokuchaseneyo. Kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo into yokuba umntwana angathatha imikhwa ecaphukisayo yesilwanyana, njengokusiwola kabuhlungu okanye ukusondeza ubuso baso embizeni. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sichaze indlela ekufuneka usiphatha ngayo isilwanyana sasekhaya, usiphulule kancinci, ngaphandle kokutsala iinwele okanye uzikrwembe. Ngaphandle koko, inja ingasabela ngokuluma.
Iya kusinceda, kuyo yonke le nkqubo, ukubandakanya umntwana kwinkathalelo yenja yemihla ngemihla. Umzekelo, wayenokuthatha uxanduva lokuxubha iinwele, azalise isitya sakhe samanzi kwaye asikhaphe xa sihamba naye. Konke oku phantsi kweliso lethu.
Le ntlonipho kufuneka ibekhona nakwicala lesilwanyana. Kufuneka simbonise ukuba ithini imida yakhe, esongamela umdlalo phakathi kwabo kunye ukumthethisa xa esenza kakubi. Ukuthi "HAYI" ngokuqinileyo kuya kwanela, ngelixa simnyanzela ukuba ahlale kude nomntwana imizuzu embalwa.
Kubalulekile ukuba inja inayo eyakho indawo, apho unokuzimela khona xa ungafuni kuphazanyiswa. Singayilungiselela ikona yayo, sibeke ibhedi yakho kunye nezinto zokudlala kuyo. Kufuneka sifundise umntwana ukuhlonipha le ndawo.
Nangona kunjalo, kwezinye iimeko konke oku akwanele, kufuna ungenelelo lwe umqeqeshi oqeqeshiweyo. Ukuba siqaphela imiqondiso yokuba ndlongondlongo kwinja yethu, kungcono ukuba sidibane nengcali ukuze silawule naziphi na iingxaki ezizayo.
Ukuthatha la manyathelo siza kuphumeza ukuba inja yethu iseke ubudlelwane obuhle nabantwana bendlu, inikezela ngabancinci amava awodwa kunye nokubavumela ukuba bonwabele izibonelelo ezininzi zokudibana nemfuyo imihla ngemihla.