Fundisa injana zikhulule ngaphandle kwekhaya Inokuba ngumsebenzi olula okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, inkqubo ende kwaye inzima, kuba ezinye izinja zikufumanisa kunzima ngakumbi kunabanye ukufumana lo mkhwa. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuhamba kwexesha, umonde, kunye nokuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo, sinokuyicombulula le ngxaki. Sikunika iingcebiso malunga noku.
Okokuqala, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba injana awunakuphumela ngaphandle ude ufumane lonke ugonyo oluyimfuneko (malunga neenyanga ezi-4 ubudala). Kude kube lelo xesha sinokumfundisa ukuba angene kwikona esiyilungiselela ngokukodwa, ngeesepha okanye iphephandaba, elibekwe kude neendawo apho atya kwaye alala khona. Eyona ndlela yokwenza oku kukuhlala ujonge ngexesha eliphambili (xa uvuka, emva nje kokutya ...), ukukhokelela isilwanyana kule kona kwaye usivuze xa zikhulule.
Nje ukuba eli nqanaba lokuqala logonyo ligqitywe, kuyakufuneka sithathe indawo yamaphephandaba okanye iisepha esitratweni. Siza kuyiphumeza le nto ngokukhupha inja kanye ngala maxesha siphambili ebesithetha ngawo, kwaye mvuze xa evumela umphunga esitratweni. Ngamanye amaxesha inja iyawufunda ngokukhawuleza lo mthetho mtsha, ngelixa kwezinye iimeko kunzima ukuba ivumelane kwaye iqhubeke nokusebenzisa ikona ebesimise ngaphambili endlwini yethu "ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela."
Ukuba kunjalo, akukho nto ibhetele kunokuba ukwandisa inani lokuhamba kwemihla ngemihla okanye ukubandisa de isilwanyana ekugqibeleni senze amathumbu aso ngaphandle. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukumvuza ngalo lonke ixesha esenza ngokuchanekileyo kwaye angabuyeli ekhaya kwangoko emva koko, kodwa aqhubeke nokuhamba imizuzwana embalwa.
Ngokunjalo, kufuneka siyeke ukumvuza ngalo lonke ixesha esebenzisa amaphephandaba okanye iisepha esithethe ngazo ngaphambili. Endaweni yoko, kuya kufuneka sithi "hayi" kuye kwaye simse esitratweni kwangoko. Ukongeza, ukuhamba kufuneka kube neshedyuli emiselweyo, kuba isiqhelo sisihlobo esikhulu kule meko. Ewe kunjalo, Ukumemeza kunye nokuhlwaywa komzimba akukhutshwa ngokupheleleyo, njengoko zingasebenzi kwaye zinokubangela umonakalo omkhulu kwisilwanyana.
Yonke le nkqubo ingathatha iintsuku, iiveki okanye iinyanga, konke kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi. Ngayiphi na imeko siya kuyidinga ixesha kunye nomonde omninzi, kodwa ukulandela ezi zikhokelo sinokukufikelela.