Asinakuba ngoogqirha bezilwanyana, kwaye izinto ezininzi ziyabaleka ekuqondeni kwethu kwaye sinokungaqondi nokuba inja inokuba ayilunganga, kuba abanakuthetha nathi, kodwa ukuba siyalwazi isilwanyana sakho, ngokuqinisekileyo siya kuqaphela utshintsho xa sigula. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba siziphawule ezi nguqu zincinci kuba zinokusixelela ukuba kukho into engalunganga.
Akusoloko isifo esiyingozi, kodwa inyaniso kukuba ayikhathazi ukukhathazeka ngokukhawuleza xa sibona oko into etshintsha kwinja yethu. Ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ahlolwe ngokubanzi okanye akhusele izifo kuhlala kusisona sisombululo sisiso kwezi meko, kuba ziingcali ezinokusicebisa ngeyona ndlela.
Enye yezona zinto zisixelela ukuba inja yethu ingagula yile ukulahleka komdla. Ngenye imini banokuziva bengonwabanga ngokutya into ebebengafanele ukuba nayo, kodwa ukuba iyaphinda le nto kuyakufuneka siye kugqirha wezilwanyana, kuba ukungakhathali ngexesha lokutya kunokubonisa ukuba kukho into engalunganga kwaye zininzi izifo ezikhokelela ekuphelelweni kukutya inja. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba uyinja etya kakuhle.
La ukunqongophala kwamandla inokuba lolunye uphawu olungathandabuzekiyo lokuba inja ayiphilanga. Xa bekhula baba nokuzola kwaye bachitha ixesha elininzi lokulala, kodwa oku kuyaqhubeka, akwenzeki ngobusuku obunye. Ukuba ngequbuliso sifumanisa ukuba isilwanyana sethu sidiniwe, asifuni kudlala kwaye sinamandla amancinci, sichitha usuku singakhathali kwaye singenzi nto, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uziva kakubi ngento ethile.
Kukho nezinye iimpawu, ezinje Zikhotha indawo kakhulu, ezinokubonisa ukuba baziva iintlungu kuyo. Kwaye ukuba basela amanzi amaninzi inokuba inento yokwenza nosulelo lomchamo okanye isifo seswekile. Ewe zininzi izinto ezinokwenzeka, kodwa ngaphambi kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha kungcono ukuzisa kugqirha wezilwanyana.