Njengoko sibonile ngaphambili, ukungathobeli okanye ukungathobeli kwizilwanyana kuqheleke kakhulu, ngakumbi xa besebancinci.
Izinja zinomdla wokubonisa isimilo esingafanelekanga xa zincinci kwaye nangona isilwanyana ngasinye sifanelwe inkululeko yokuzikhethela, sikwafuna imida ethile kunye nezikhokelo kwimfundo yabo ukuze xa befika ebudaleni bangabi zizinja ezingathobeliyo. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlale usazi ukuba kulula ukuqeqesha inja esencinci kunokutshintsha isimilo esilungiselelwe inja endala. Ngesi sizathu incam yokuqala, kwaye eyona ibaluleke kakhulu kuzo zonke, kukuqala fundisa isilwanyana sethu esincinci kuba siyinjana.
Nangona kunjalo, kwaye njengoko ndihlala ndisitsho, xa kuziwa ekufundiseni, kufuneka ngaphezulu kwako konke silumke ngendlela esifundisa ngayo. Kuya kufuneka sinyamezele kwaye sizole ukuze singangeni kwimfundo enobundlongondlongo, enokuthi iguqule isilwanyana sethu sibe yinja eyoyikisayo, enoburharha kwaye enomsindo.
Namhlanje sikuphathele ezinye iingcebiso zokugcina engqondweni ukuba unesilwanyana esingathobeliyo ekhaya.
- Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuzama ukufundisa kunye nokuqeqesha isilwanyana sakho, kuyacetyiswa ukuba udibane nengcali. Ungajika uye kubaqeqeshi abaziingcali abaya kuthi bazi eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokufundisa isilwanyana sakho ngaphandle kokubangela ukwenzakala okanye ukwenzakala okanye ukufundisa imikhwa emibi.
- Njengoko kukhankanyiwe ngasentla, isilwanyana sakho akufuneki sibethwe okanye singxolwe. Oku, endaweni yokunceda ukumfundisa, kuya kuseta iphethini yokuziphatha gwenxa kwaye kunokumenza abe ndlongondlongo okanye oyike.
- Ndwendwela ugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze uvavanywe emzimbeni wesilwanyana sakho. Amaxesha amaninzi isilwanyana sethu asithobeli hayi kuba sinengxaki yokuziphatha, kodwa kungenxa yokuba sinokuba neengxaki zomzimba njengokuva okanye ukungaboni kakuhle.
- Ngelixa ufundisa isilwanyana sakho, mvuze ngeebhiskithi zenja okanye ngokuziphatha ukuze azi ukuba uqhuba kakuhle. Ukuba ukhetha ukungamniki ukutya, nge-cuddles, ngokuqhwaba izandla okanye ngokuwola, mxelele ukuba le yindlela yokuziphatha ekufuneka eyilandele.