Ukuba siya zisa injana ekhaya, Siza kuba lusapho lwakhe olutsha, kwaye kukho izinto ezithile ekufuneka sizithathele ingqalelo ukuze simkhathalele kwaye simenze aziqhelanise ngcono nale meko intsha. Baninzi abantu abagqiba ekubeni babe nenjana kwaye yiyo loo nto kufuneka bachithe la maxesha xa befika ekhaya kwaye baqala ukuziqhelanisa nobomi bayo obutsha. Kweminye kulula kunabanye, yiyo loo nto kulungile ukuba ulandele ezinye zezi ngcebiso.
Ukuqala, akufuneki siyisuse inja kuyo okusingqongileyo ngaphandle kokwazi kwethu. Eyona nto ilungileyo ibikukuba simtyelele kunye nonina amatyeli ambalwa, ukuze asiqhele kunye nevumba lethu, ke utshintsho aluzukuba lubi kangako ngosuku lokuqala afike ngalo ekhaya. Ngayiphi na imeko, siya kumangaliswa kukuziqhelanisa neenjana kwindawo entsha.
Xa ufika ekhaya kulungile makhe ndihlolisise. Kuhlala kulungile ukuba izinja zifuna ukwazi. Usenokoyika okanye azoyike yena kuqala, oko kuxhomekeke kubuntu bakhe, kodwa oku kuya kuphuma kunomdla, emva koko aqale ukurhabula ejikeleza indlu. Kuya kufuneka uyishiye, kuba iyindlela yokwazi indawo oza kuhlala kuyo, amavumba ayo, lawo mavumba aya kuba yinxalenye yekhaya lakho.
Kufuneka siqhubeke nokutya kunye nokutya anako ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kwaye kufuneka sibe nendawo yokuba yeyakhe. Kuhle ukukubonisa. Ukuba sinako yiza nengubo okanye into enukayo njengomama wakho, uya kulala kamnandi ebhedini yakho entsha kwaye wazi ukuba le ndawo yeyakho. Musa ukulibala ukuba bayaqonda ngevumba. Iintsuku zokuqala kungcono ukuba ungamxinzeleli kwaye mvumele ukuba aziqhelanise nathi, aphonononge kwaye afumanise indlu kunye nosapho lwakhe olutsha.