Phulukana nenja yethu Ukuphulukana nelungu elinye losapho, ngayo yonke into ebandakanya oku. Yimeko enzima kwaye ibuhlungu, eyilahleko enkulu yeemvakalelo kuthi. Sinyanzelekile ukuba siqale inkqubo enzima ngexesha apho kufuneka siqhele ukuhlala ngaphandle kobukho babathandekayo bethu. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha oku kungabonakala kungenakwenzeka, sinokuyoyisa imeko.
Intlungu esiyivayo emva ukufa kwenja yethu Inokuba kakhulu okanye yomelele kunaleyo isingenayo emva kokuphulukana nabani na okufutshane nathi. Kungenxa yoko Inkqubo yokufanisa iyafana, egubungela ngokwamanqanaba afanayo, ukusuka ekwenqabeni ukuya ekwamkelweni. Sisenokude sizive sinetyala. Konke oku kunzima ngakumbi okanye kuncinci kuxhomekeke kwizizathu zokufa.
Okokuqala, kwaye njengoko kusenzeka emva kwaso nasiphi na isiganeko esibuhlungu esinokwenzeka kuthi, kufuneka sinike ixesha lokulila kwaye bavakalise iintlungu zethu; kulapho kuphela sinokuthi siyikhulule. Kubalulekile ukwamkela kubo bobabini nakwabanye ukuba silusizi kwaye siyakuyikhumbula inja yethu. Into elungileyo kukuba sikhuphe usapho kunye nabahlobo, kwaye singaze sizicinezele iimvakalelo zethu.
Abanye basebenzisa iindlela ezithile zokubonisa njengonyango. Umzekelo, sinako bhala ileta eya kwisilwanyana sasekhaya njengokuvalelisa, imibongo, yenza ukudityaniswa kweefoto zakho, uhlele iividiyo, njl. Yonke into iyasebenza ukubonisa iimvakalelo zethu. Oku akuyi kwenza ukuba iintlungu zihambe, kodwa kuya kusinceda samkele le meko intsha kwaye simelane nayo.
Hlela umsitho wokuvalelisa Inokusinceda nathi kule nkalo. Singacwangcisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo, sizikhokele koko sikubona kufanelekile. Sisigqibo sobuqu, ekukho iindlela ezizezinye ezahlukeneyo. Kukho, umzekelo, amangcwaba ezilwanyana zasekhaya, asivumelayo ukuba siwatyelele nanini na sifuna.
Emva kwako konke oku kuqala isigaba esinzima sokwamkela inkqubo entsha ngaphandle kwenja yethu, edla ngokuhamba nayo uvakalelo olunamandla lokudakumba. Kuqhelekile, siphulukene nelahleko engenakulungiseka kwaye, njengoko sisazi, ubudlelwane phakathi komntu nenja yakhe bomelele ngokungaqhelekanga. Kuza kusinceda ukuthetha nabantu abakwimeko efanayo; Kwi-Intanethi, sifumana amaphepha ewebhu amaninzi azinikele ekwenzeni olu hlobo lwencoko nabanye abasebenzisi.
Iya kusinceda nathi gcina imikhwa ethile ixesha elithile, njengokuhamba kwiindawo ezifanayo kwaye ngamaxesha afanayo ebesihamba ngayo nenja yethu. Kancinci kancinci siya kukulungela ukuzitshintsha ezi ndlela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Sinokuziva sinesidingo esingxamisekileyo faka enye inja ebomini bethu Ukuzalisa imeko yethu yeemvakalelo Kwaye nangona kuyinyani ukuba akufuneki sivumele iintlungu zisenze sincame izilwanyana zasekhaya ezizayo, kuyinyani ukuba isilwanyana ngasinye asinakuphinda sibuyekezwe, kwaye kufanelekile ukoyisa usizi ngaphambi kokucinga ngokuhlala nesinye isilwanyana sasekhaya. Ngaphandle koko umonakalo wengqondo unokuba mkhulu ngakumbi.
Akufuneki sigxeke thina xa siziva iintlungu, nokuba seziqala ukumka. Ngokuhamba kwexesha iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ziya kuhlala zivela ngasemva, endaweni yazo kungene iinkumbulo ezimyoli kwinkampani yenja yethu. Intuthuzelo elungileyo kukucinga ukuba senze isilwanyana saziva sithandwa kwaye sonwabile ecaleni kwethu, ukuba sonwabele umgangatho wobomi.
Ukuba siphawula ukuba ixesha aliziphilisi iintlungu zethu, ungathandabuzi fumana ingcali Sincede. Kuqhelekile kwaye kusengqiqweni ngokupheleleyo ukuya kugqirha wezengqondo emva kokusweleka kwesilwanyana sasekhaya, ngenxa yoko akufuneki sibe neentloni. Into ebalulekileyo kukufumana indlela yokoyisa ilahleko kwaye uqhubeke.