El injana kufuneka ihlalisane ke uyazi ukunxibelelana nezinye izilwanyana kunye nabantu. Inja yabantu abadala enengxaki yokuhlalisana iyakuthatha umsebenzi omninzi kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuba neengxaki, ngamanye amaxesha ngobundlongondlongo, ngamanye amaxesha boyike okanye bavumelane, yiyo loo nto ke kubalulekile ukuba uzidibanise nazo xa zizinjana, ukuze zifunde ukunxibelelana ngokwemvelo.
Makhe sibone ezinye izimvo ezilula ncedisa injana ekuhlaleni. Iinyanga zokuqala kunye nokufunda kwakhe njengenjana kuya kuphawula kakhulu isimilo sakhe njengenja endala. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sinike ukubaluleka okukufaneleyo kweli nqanaba lenja yethu.
Kubalulekile ukuba kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi masazise ezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya. Kule meko, izinja ezinomonde, izinja ezineempawu ezintle, zilungele umsebenzi. Baza kubafundisa indlela yokuziphatha nokunxibelelana. Kuya kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba inja akufuneki iphume iye kuxubana nezinye izinja okanye izilwanyana zasekhaya ngelixa ingenalo ugonyo, kodwa ukuba sinenja enogonyo oluhlaziyiweyo esinokuyibonisa yona, iya kuba ilungile .
Iinjana akufuneki zenze njalo hlala kunye nezinye izinja, kodwa kunye neekati kunye nezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya, ke bayayazi indlela yokuziphatha nabo. Yindlela yokufundisa yonke into abaza kuyifumana, ukuze baphulukane noloyiko lwabo kwaye balutshintshe ngenxa yokufuna ukwazi.
Bamele hlala nabantu kanjalo. Ukuqhagamshelana nabantu kubalulekile. Sinokukwazisa kuwo onke amalungu osapho kwaye sibase kwiindawo esinokuthi sifumane kuzo abantu esinokusebenzisana nabo. Ukuba kukho abantwana abangcono kakhulu, nangona kufuneka sibacacisele ngendlela yokudibana nenja nokuzazisa. Izinja ezinxibelelana nezilwanyana zasekhaya ezininzi kunye nabantu kumanqanaba abo ezinjana zizilwanyana ezinokulinganisela ngakumbi njengabantu abadala.