Kwiminyaka ethile edlulileyo kwavela umkhwa omtsha kwifashoni yenja, esekwe kwi idayi yeenwele inja yethu enemibala eyahlukileyo, ngokumguqula ukuba ibe sisinye isilwanyana. Ixhaphake rhoqo kwizixeko ezinje ngeNew York, iTokyo, iBeijing, iParis neLondon, kwaye nangona eSpain ingesosiko eliqhelekileyo, ikhona kwezinye iindawo.
Kukho izimvo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo ezahluka-hlukeneyo esizifumana malunga neengcali. Kwindawo yokuqala, kukho abo bacinga njalo idayi yeenwele Senza "ubuntu" inja, into engalunganga kuqeqesho lwayo. Ukongeza, abanye bacinga ukuba isenzo sisuswe ngokupheleleyo kubume babo ukumthintela ekuhlaleni ngokufanelekileyo nezinye izinja.
Kwaye akufuneki silibale ukuba ezi zilwanyana ziyazi kwaye zinxibelelana ngokunuka, kwaye xa ufaka idayi, silifihla ivumba lalo lendalo. Oku kunokungonwabi kokubini kwinja esiyidayileyo nakwabo basondela kuyo, nokuba bayayala. Ungalibali uxinzelelo olubangelwe kuye yinkqubo ende ye "makeover."
Umcimbi obaluleke ngakumbi ngu Ityhefu ukuba ezinye iidayi zibangela kulusu lwakho. Uninzi lwazo lwenziwe ngezinto zendalo kwaye kuvavanywa izilwanyana, ke akukho mfuneko yokuba zibe yingozi. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abaninzi abahlangani nezi mpawu, nangona abavelisi babo bebonisa njalo, ngenxa yomgaqo omiselweyo okhoyo ngoku ngokubhekisele kwezi mveliso.
Ngesi sizathu isilwanyana sinakho ukunxila kwezi dayi, ezinokufunxwa eluswini okanye ukungeniswa xa inja izama ukuzihlambulula ngokukhotha. Amaxesha amaninzi oku kukhokelela kubuzaza umonakalo emzimbeni wakho, ebangela kwanokufa kwakhe. Oku kuyenzeka xa sisebenzisa idayi yabantu.
Kuzo zonke ezi zizathu, ukuba sifuna ukudaya inja yethu kubalulekile ukuba besikhe sathetha-thethana nayo ngaphambili ugqirha wezilwanyana inokuthenjwa, kuba iyakwazi ukusicebisa ukuba sizisebenzise ziphi iimveliso kwaye sizenze njani ukuze singonzakalisi impilo yezilwanyana zethu.