Amaxesha amaninzi asazi ukuba banokubakhathaza kangakanani eminye imikhwa kwisilwanyana sasekhaya; Ngapha koko, sikholelwa ekubeni ezi zenzo zomzimba ziyathandeka kubo, kanti zona ziyabacekisa. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi kunzima ukuzichonga, ke senza iimpazamo ezifanayo ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukubaphepha kufuneka sazi ukuba ziyintoni na:
1. Ukuwolana. Zezinye zezona ndlela zixhaphakileyo zothando ebantwini, kodwa izinja zizifumana zixinzelelekile kwaye zingathandeki; Kubo kungaphezulu kwesenzo solawulo. Izinja ezininzi zikhulise ukunyamezelana noku, kodwa ngaphandle koku siyakuqaphela ukuba ziyadinwa, jika kuthi okanye ujonge kude. Le yimiqondiso yokuba bacaphukile.
2. Impama entloko. Ziyacaphukisa ngakumbi, ngakumbi ukuba zivela ezandleni zomntu ongamaziyo. Ezi "mpompo" azonwabanga kubo, ke siyakuqaphela ukuba xa silisebenzisa eli siko, iqela liyathoba intloko, livale amehlo lize libuyele nasemva. Kukuhlasela kwendawo yabo, ke nangona ezi ntendelezo ziyanyamezela, inyani kukuba bazimisele ukugqiba ngaphambili.
3. Ingxolo enkulu. Amandla abo okuva akhula ngokumangalisayo, ke ezi zilwanyana zichaphazeleka ngakumbi kwingxolo kunabantu. Kungenxa yesi sizathu le nto umculo ongxolayo, umabonwakude, okanye ukukhwaza kunokubenza bangonwabi. Izandi eziphakamileyo azinyamezeleki kwiindlebe zakho ezintle.
4. Inkohliso. Abanini abaninzi bakufumanisa kuyinto ehlekisayo "ukukhohlisa" izinja zabo ngokungathi bayiphosile ibhola kanti eneneni basayibambile, okanye ukubeka ukutya phambi komlomo wabo bakususe ngomzuzu wokugqibela. Into esinokuyonwabisa ngabo ngumzuzu wokuxhalaba kungabikho nto iluncedo.
5. Zibambe ngesiquphe. Oku kuqheleke kakhulu phakathi kwabanini bezilwanyana ezincinci. Izinja ziyacaphukisa ukuba sikhawuleze siziphakamise emhlabeni sizise apho sifuna khona; Banokuba novalo kakhulu njengoko bengaqondi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni.