Izinja zizilwanyana ezisebenzisa imilomo yazo ukuphonononga yonke into. Ngokukodwa xa zizinjana, banokuba notyekelo olukhulu lokuluma izandla, iinyawo, ifenitshala, izihlangu ... ngokufutshane, yonke into abayifumanayo. Le ndlela yokuziphatha inokuhlekisa ekuqaleni, kodwa njengoko inja ikhula, amazinyo ayo aya esiba namandla, kwaye kulapho ke inokuba buhlungu kokubini kuthi nakwezinye iinwele ezihamba ngexesha lokuhamba.
Ukuthintela iingxaki, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba wazi indlela yokufundisa inja ukuba ingaluma. Kwaye siza kuthetha ngale nto kweli nqaku. Landela ezi ngcebiso ukuze inja yakho yazi indlela yokuziphatha.
Amalungu omzimba ayisiyo into yokudlala
Nokuba uyinjana okanye umntu omdala, enye yezinto zokuqala ekufuneka simenze ukuba aqonde kukuba umzimba womntu awuyonto yokudlala. Ngalo lonke ixesha ezama ukusiluma, nokuba kuyadlala, siya kuthi hayi ngokuqinisekileyo, ngaphandle kokukhwaza, kwaye siza kumfulathela. Ukuba uzama ukusikhohlisa, asiyi kukumamela. Kuya kufuneka afunde ukuba asifuni ukuba asilume, kwaye ngenxa yoko kufuneka udibanise nokufuna ukusiluma ngento engeyiyo (kubalulekile: akufuneki abethwe okanye angxolwe, kuba oku kuya kumenza asoyike): »qho xa ndiluma, abandihoyi». Mnike unyango (ukuphathaphatha, ukuphatha inja, into yokudlala) ukuba kudlule imizuzwana eli-10 kwaye ebelungile.
Enye inketho yithumele kwakhona. Wenza njani? Kulula kakhulu: ngalo lonke ixesha ezama ukukuluma, mfundise ukunyanga inja kwaye umenze ukuba aye ndawo: umzekelo, ukuba uhleli esofeni, ngoncedo lonyango siza kumhlisa, mnike umyalelo osisiseko (njengokuhlala) kwaye siya kukunika ibhaso.
Kufuneka ube rhoqo. Inja kufuneka iphindaphinde into enye amaxesha amaninzi ukuze uyiqonde kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, iyinkqaye. Kodwa umsebenzi ekugqibeleni kufanelekile. Ngonaphakade.
Ndingenza ntoni xa izakuluma enye inja okanye umntu epakini?
Akukho mntu uthanda ukubona inja yakhe izama ukuluma enye inja okanye umntu. Yimeko engathandekiyo kubo bobabini umgcini wezilwanyana kunye "nexhoba." Ukwenza? Ngokwamava ndiyakuxelela ukuba eyona nto intle ukuyenza yile thula.
Ukuba ubona inja yakho eqala ukuziva ingonwabanga okanye ingonwabanga (iinwele ezinwele, ziqala ukubonisa amazinyo, zilungisa umsila wazo), yithathe apho. Mbeke kwi-leash kwaye, ngaphandle kokuthetha nto, uye kwikona ekude, apho inja inokuzola khona. Menze ukuba enze isniffing encinci ngokutshiza iisuntsu zeesoseji okanye zokuphatha i-doggie phantsi. Oku kuya kukunceda uphumle.
Ngaphambi kokubuyela epakini, ndincoma ukuba qhubeka uziqhelisa ekhaya kwaye uhambe ngezitrato apho kungekho bantu baninzi bahlala behamba nezinja zabo. Kuphela kuxa ubona ukuba ekugqibeleni uqondile ukuba akanakuluma, kuphela apho unokuzama kwakhona.
Ukuba ufuna uncedo ngakumbi, ungathandabuzi ukubuza a umqeqeshi wezinja isebenza kakuhle.